Ko Zera-Risina Kukodzera Roorano Rinomira Muedzo Wenguva?

Zvemukati

• Maitiro Ezera-Gap Kudanana Kunochinja Kwemakore
• Maitiro Ekufungidzira Veruzhinji Anobata Sei Hukama Hwehukama
• Dzimwe Kuroora Dzinomira Muedzo Wenguva

• Vese varume nevakadzi vanotaura pakutanga vachigutsikana muwanano yavo apo avo vavakaroorana navo vaive vadiki, inotsvagurudza mishumo.
• Kunyangwe varoorani vane gaka rezera rakatanga kugutsikana zvakanyanya, zvakadaro, kugutsikana kwavo kwaida kudzikira zvakanyanya nekufamba kwenguva kupfuura vakaroora vaive vezera rimwe chete.
• Iyo mhedzisiro mhedzisiro yekutonga munharaunda inowanzo gamuchirwa nevezera-gap vakaroorana, pamwe chete nematambudziko ehutano anogona kuwira murume akura murume, zvinogona kukonzera kuderera uku.

Vazhinji vedu tinoziva vanofara vanofara vakaroorana vakazvarwa makumi emakore vakaparadzana. Zvisinei kuti ndeupi mudiwa akura, vanoita kunge vakafananidzwa mushe neimwe nzira. Kunyangwe chiri chokwadi kuti vanhu vane tsika yekufungidzira zera-gap kudanana, pane humbowo hwekuti vamwe vakadzi vechidiki vanongoda varume vakuru, uye varume vazhinji vanofarira vakadzi vakuru zvakare. Asi zvisinei nekuti ndeupi mudiwa akura, vaviri vaviri vachamira muyedzo wenguva? Kutsvagisa kune dzimwe mhinduro.

Maitiro Ezera-Gap Kudanana Kunochinja Kwemakore

Wang-Sheng Lee naTerra McKinnish (2018) vakaferefeta mashandiro anoita makore ekugutsikana pamusoro pekuroora. varume vaiwanzogutsikana nevakadzi vadiki, uye vakadzi vaiwanzogutsikana nevarume vadiki. Vese varume nevakadzi vaitarisira kusagutsikana zvakanyanya nevakaroora vakura.

Nezve mazinga ekuzadzikiswa pamusoro penzira yemuchato, zvisinei, Lee naMcKinnish vakaona kuti kugutsikana muwanano kwakadzikira zvakanyanya kune vese vakomana mune zera-gaka vaviri, zvichienzaniswa neakafanana-zera vakaroora. Uku kuderera kunowanzo bvisa huwandu hwekugutsikana hwekutanga hwewanano hunowanikwa nevarume nevakadzi vakaroora kune vakaroora vadiki mukati memakore matanhatu kusvika gumi emuchato.

Ivo vanobvuma zvavakawana zvakapesana nekutsvagisa nezvekusarudzika kwemuchato uye zvipenga zvezera, pamwe nepamhepo uye nekumhanyisa-kufambidzana nedhata yekudzidza - izvo zvinoratidza kufarira kune vamwe vane makore akafanana. Vachitaura nezvezvikonzero zvinoita kuti paite musiyano, Lee naMcKinnish vanobvuma chinzvimbo icho mukana uye mukana wekubudirira kwehukama, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, zvinotamba muchisarudzo chekuti ndiani wekufambidzana naye.

Kunyanya, ivo vanoona kuti dhata inoratidza kuti vese varume nevakadzi vanofarira zvakafanana vakweguru vadikani ingori dudziro chaiyo kana singles vanozvidza mukana wehukama hwehukama. Nekuti varume pakutanga vanowana kugutsikana kwakanyanya muwanano nemadzimai madiki, asi vakadzi vanowana kugutsikana kushoma nevarume vakuru, izvi zvinoratidza kuti varume vanogona kusarudza kutsvaga vakadzi vadiki - asi kutya kukundikana (kureva. kubudirira ne "vadiki vevakabatana vadiki." Vanoona kuti kufunga kwakafanana kunogona kutsanangura kusada kwevakadzi kutevedzera madiki nevarume vadiki.

Chii chingatsanangure kudzikira kwekugutsikana muwanano mumakore apfuura? Lee naMcKinnish vanofungidzira kuti pamwe zera-gap vakaroorana havakwanise kugadzirisa zvakashata hupfumi zvichienzaniswa nevakaroora vezera rakafanana. Asi vangangodaro zvakare vasingakwanise kugadzirisa mamiriro akashata evamwe?

Maitiro Ekufungidzira Veruzhinji Anobata Sei Hukama Hwehukama

Vamwe vakaroora-vane zera vakaroora vanozvifunga pamusoro pechitarisiko chavanogashira uye nematauriro avanonzwa pamberi pevanhu. Vanhu vari kufambidzana kana vachangobva kuroora vakadzi vadiki vanowanzo yambirwa kuti hukama hwavo hahugare. Nei vasina tariro zvakadaro? Asingagamuchirwe, husina kukumbirwa zano rehukama kazhinji rinouya kubva kune data rakagadzirwa zvese nesainzi uye zvisina tsarukano.

Chinyorwa mu Atlantic rine musoro unoti "ZveMuchato Unogara, Edza Kuroora Mumwe Munhu Zera Rako Rairo," [ii] uchinyatsocherechedza kuti "Statistics, hongu, haisi ramangwana," yakadudzira kutsvagisa kunotaura kuti vaviri avo vaive nemakore mashanu musiyano muzera vaive 18 muzana ingangoita yekuparara, uye kana musiyano wezera waive makore gumi, mukana wakakwira kusvika pa39 muzana.

Vazhinji-zera-gadzikano vakaroora vanopesana zvachose nekufungidzira kwakashata uye vanoshora zviverengero. Vanhu vazhinji vanoziva zera-zvisina kufanira vakaroorana avo vakafarikanya roorano huru kwemakumi emakore. Asi sechinhu chinoshanda, gare gare muhupenyu, murume mukuru anogona kusangana nezvinetso zvine chekuita nezvehutano pamberi pemudiki-izvo zvinogona kunetsa kune vese. Zviripachena, vakaroorana vakadaro vanoziva kuti zuva iri richauya, asi mamiriro ekunze mwaka uno zvakasiyana. Zvakaitika nevakaroora panguva ino yehupenyu zvinogona kukanganisa maitiro atinoona iwo maviri maviri.

Dzimwe Kuroora Dzinomira Muedzo Wenguva

Vazhinji vakaroora vanofara vakaparadzaniswa neganhu wezera vanoyeuchidza shamwari dzine chinangwa nemhuri nemhuri kuti vakapika kuda nekuchengeta vavakaroorana navo “kusvikira rufu rwatiparadzanisa.” Nhengo dzenzvimbo yekutandarira ine hutano yakakomberedza vakaroorana vakadaro vakachenjera kupa rutsigiro - pasina stereotyping.

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