Vhara Iyo Yakatemerwa Pakati Yevakadzi Yega & Partner Kunakidzwa

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• Zvepabonde Zvakakosha Kuverengwa
• Nei Zvichiita Senge Vamwe Vanhu Vanofarira Bonde Kupfuura Zvaunoita Iwe

Tine mukaha wegasm. Cis-gender vakadzi vanoita zvepabonde vari kuita mashoma mashoma kupfuura avo vari cis-gender heterosexual varume. Semumwe muenzaniso unoshamisa, mukutsvagurudza kwandakaita, 55% yevarume maringe ne4% yevakadzi vanoti vanowanzoita orgasm panguva yekutanga kusangana pabonde. Kumwe kutsvagurudza kunoratidza kuti mukaha uyu unodzikira, asi hausi kuvhara zvachose, muhukama hwepabonde. Imwe ongororo yakawana kuti 85% yevarume vs. 68% yevakadzi vakati vakapenga panguva yavo yekupedzisira yehukama hwepabonde.

In Kuva Munyika, Ini ndinoongorora akawanda emagariro zvikonzero zveiyi gap - kusanganisira, semuenzaniso mumwe chete, dzidzo yebonde isingataure mafaro kana clitoris. Ini ndinobva ndapa mhinduro dzekuvhara gaka, zvetsika (semuenzaniso, dzidzo yepabonde yakavandudzwa, mutauro unoshanduka) uye pachangu (semuenzaniso, kufunga, kutaurirana kwakanaka pabonde). Imwe mhinduro yepakati ndeyekuona kuti vakadzi vanowana mhando imwechete yekukurudzira panguva yekuzvibata- uye nemumwe wako pabonde. Ndinoudza vaverengi:

Chinhu chakanyanya kukosha chinodiwa pakurangana pabonde nemumwe wako kutora mhando imwe chete yekukurudzira iwe yaunoshandisa kana uchizvifadza.

Pasi peyangu (chaiko uye fananidzo) chirevo chakashinga inyaya yekuti kunyangwe paine musiyano wepabonde mune vevakabatana, hapana mukana wakadai mune wega-bonde. Zvinoenderana nekutsvagisa kwakaitwa nenyanzvi inozivikanwa, vese varume nevakadzi vane mwero wakakura kwazvo weegasm panguva yekuita bonhora: 94% yevakadzi uye 98% yevarume.

Chikonzero chikuru kuzvifadza kwevanhukadzi kuri kuita senge munhukadzi anotarisa kunhengo dzavo dzekunze-kazhinji kacho clitoris, asiwo mons, miromo yemukati, nekuvhurira mukadzi. Chokwadi, huwandu hwakawanda hwemitsipa hunoguma hunodiwa nevakadzi kuti vasvike kanagasm iri kunze kwekunze kwenhengo dzavo. Izvi zvinotsanangura chikonzero nei mune kumwe kuongorora, vangangoita makumi masere neshanu evakadzi vakataura vachinyatso tarisa kumitezo yavo yekunze panguva yekuzvifadza. Imwe 12% yakatarisana nekunze nepo dzimwe nguva kana nguva dzose zvakare vachiisa chimwe chinhu mumadzimai avo. Chete vangangoita 2% vanozvifadza ivo nekuisa chete chimwe chinhu mukati memadzimai avo.

Kupwanya izvi zvakare, pakati pe 98% yevakadzi vakasimudzira nhengo dzavo dzekunze, 73% vakazviita varere nemisana, 6% pavakarara pamadumbu, 4% vachikwiza vachikwikwidza chinhu chakapfava, 2% nekushandisa kumhanya mvura, uye 3% nekungopusha zvidya zvavo pamwechete zvine mutsindo.

Kutorwa pamwechete, izvi zviverengero zvinosimbisa mazwi aElizabeth Lloyd:

Chinhu chinonyanya kushamisa pamusoro pevanhukadzi bonhora ndeyekuti ingangoita sei kuburitsa orgasm uye kuti yakafanana sei nediki, zvinehunyanzvi, kukurudzira kunopihwa nekusangana pabonde.

Kune rimwe divi (hapana pun inorongedzerwa), kukurudzira uko murume anogamuchira kuburikidza nekuita bonhora uye kusangana (pamwe nekurova mabasa uye nemaoko mabasa) zvakafanana: vanotarisa pane yake inonyanya kusangana pabonde nhengo, nhengo yake. Muchokwadi, yakawanda yekuita bonhora mazano evarume anovaudza kuti vazvibate nenzira dzinoita kuti inzwe kunge nhengo yavo iri mukati memukadzi. Zvakare, kukurudzira mukadzi kunogamuchirwa kuburikidza nekuita bonhora uye kusangana kwakatosiyana: bonyora chete rinotarisa pane yake inonyanya kunetsa nhengo yebonde, iyo clitoris. Asi, kana uine varume, vakadzi vanowanzozvichinjisa, vachitungamira kurara panzvimbo.

Kana vakadzi nevarume vechikadzi vachizviita, kusangana kunowanzoonekwa sechiitiko chikuru uye chero chinhu chinosimudzira chisati chaiswa ku "foreplay" - kudziisa kuti mukadzi agadzirire kusangana. Hazvishamise kuti imwe ongororo yakaitwa nezviuru yevaverengi vemagazini yeCosmopolitan vakawana kuti panguva yekusangana pabonde kunosanganisira kusangana, 78% yematambudziko emadzimai echikadzi aikonzerwa nekusawana zvakakwana kana mhando chaiyo yekusimudzira.

Nekudaro, kuvhara iyo orgasm gap, isu tinofanirwa kubata yekusimudzirwa kwechikamu uye kukurudzira kwepenile kwakaenzana. Sezvinotsigirwa mune yangu yekupedzisira positi, Kuita Bonde Zvakasiyana, isu tinofanirwa kutsiva yedu yakajairwa tsika tsika script (foreplay, kurara nehurume orgasm, bonde pamusoro) kune mamwe egalitarian zvinyorwa, kusanganisira anotora anotora iwo ( Iye Anouya Kutanga , Anouya Wechipiri ) uye idzo apo vaviri vacho vanowana kukurudzira kwavanoda panguva imwechete yekuita bonde (p. Kana iwe uri mukadzi, kuwana kukurudzira kwaunoda kunoreva kuve nechokwadi chekuti iwe uwane mhando imwechete yekukurudzira panguva yebonde bonde iyo inounza iwe kune orgasm panguva yega-bonde.

Pane nzira mbiri dzekuendesa yako yekuzvifadza matekiniki pabonde nemumwe munhu. Imwe ndeye kudzidzisa mumwe wako zvaunoda uye imwe yacho kuzviita iwe pachako. Kudzidzisa mudiwa kunogona kusanganisira, semuenzaniso, kuvasuma kune vibrator yako, kuvaratidza zvaunofarira zvemunwe, kana kuvaudza izvo zvinonzwa zvakanaka panguva yemukanwa bonde. Kuzviita iwe pachako zvinogona kusanganisira, semuenzaniso, kushandisa maoko ako kana vibrator pauri panguva yepabonde, kana kuzviunza iwe kune orgasm mushure mekusangana apo mumwe wako akabata, anotsvoda, kana anokubata.

Zvepabonde Zvakakosha Kuverengwa

Nei Zvichiita Senge Vamwe Vanhu Vanofarira Bonde Kupfuura Zvaunoita Iwe