Vana Chete ndivo Vari Kuita Zvirinani Kupfuura Zvaunofunga

Iko kufungidzira kunoratidzika kunge kuri kwekuti iye ega mwana uye vabereki vake vari kuva neyakaomesesa nguva yekuvharirwa kwenguva yakareba kupfuura vana vane hama. Ichokwadi chiri Covid-19 yakagadzira nyowani yemhuri nzvimbo ye zvese mhuri. Zvinetso hazvina kufanana, asi zviripo.

Nekuda kwekubvumirana kufunga, vabereki vemumwe vanogona kunzwa vane mhosva uye vachifunga kuti mwana wavo angagutsikane dai paive nehama mumba. Pamwe hongu, pamwe kwete.

Kana iwe uri mubereki wemwana mumwe chete, fara kuti hausi kugadzirisa kusawirirana, kunonyaradza kukakavara kuri kuwedzera kana kuongorora kuteterera kwekutarisirwa kwemumwe nemumwe uye kusakamurwa kwevabereki. Kana vana vakafinhwa, vabereki vachadaidzwa zvisinei kuti vana vangani vanotamba mitambo uye vanozadza nzvimbo. Ini ndinonzwa zvichemo kubva kuvana vane uye vasina vanin'ina: Vezera ravo havagone kushanya, chikoro chakavharwa, hapana zviitiko zvekunze. Vanondiudza kuti havana zvekuita.

Vana chete ndivo vakapedza nguva yakawanda vari voga uye vazhinji vari kugona pakushandisa iyo yekuwedzera nguva yekuparadzaniswa kwenzanga. Chimiro chehukama hachinei nechekuita nemwana kugona kuzvivaraidza. Une hama kana kuti usina, mumwe mwana angangoda kuti iwe uronge nguva yake; mumwe anogona kuzvimiririra, achikwanisa kuzvivaraidza uye nekugutsikana zvakakwana akasiyiwa kumashandiro ake.

Kuzadza Mikana

Vabereki vevana chete vanowanzo funga kuti vanofanirwa kuve ivo vanozadza nguva yemwana wavo kudzivirira mwana wavo kunzwa kusurukirwa kana kufinhwa. Kuruboshwe kumidziyo yavo uye vasina kugara vachipiwa nevabereki, vana chete ndivo vanove vakanaka pakushandisa imwe nguva yavanayo. Paunonetseka kuti mwana wako anogona kufinhwa kana kusurukirwa pasina mukoma kuti aite seanotamba naye, funga yakakosha uye inobatsira kukwira kwenguva yega.

Inokurudzira kugona, uye zvakanyanya kukosha, inokurudzira kuzvimiririra kwemwana uye kugona kuzvivaraidza- zvese zvinobatsira sezvo mwana anokura. Mubhuku rake, Kufinhwa uye Kupenya Manuoush Zomorodi, anotsanangura kuti "Kufinhwa kunotungamira kune hama yake yepedyo, kudzungaira pfungwa ... Kurega pfungwa dzako dzichidzungaira ndiyo kiyi yekugadzira nekugadzira."

Batanidza, Batanidza, Batanidza

Bvumira pamusoro pekubatana kwepamhepo. Kana mwana wako mumwe chete achinyunyuta, bvuma kufinhwa kwake, iva netsitsi saka anoziva kuti unomunzwa, uchifunga kuti Internet irombo kuvana vazhinji uye inonyanya kubatsira vana chete kana kusurukirwa kwevanhu kuchiriko. Vabereki vakaronga miganho yekusvika pamhepo kushamwari vachazoda kubvumira yakawedzera nguva online senzira yekugara yakabatana nevezera ravo.

Kuongororwa kwevana vadiki uye yavo yepamhepo nguva yechiratidziro, inotungamirwa naDouglas Downey, purofesa wezvematongerwo enyika paOhio State University, inotaura zvishoma kana kusatomboita hunyanzvi hwehukama hwevana. "Vanotsvagurudza vakadzidza zvinopfuura 30,000 kindergarten kuburikidza nevashanu vegiredhi vachishandisa mudzidzisi uye mubvunzo wevabereki uye vakawana," Mukufananidza kwese kwataita, hunyanzvi hwekudyidzana wakaramba wakadaro kana kunyatso kukwira zvine mwero. "

Kune sarudzo dzisingaperi dzekudyidzana uye mwana wako anogona kunge achizviziva. Semuenzaniso, kune Game Pigeon- iyo iPad kana iPhone app ine makumi maviri emitambo yakawanda yemitambo yakawanda kubva kuma checkers uye chess kuenda kubasketball, miseve uye diki gorufu.

Vana nevechidiki vari kutumira mameseji vanoita zvavanogara vachiita - batanidza pamhepo uye kuburikidza nemaapp akasiyana uye nefoni dzavo. Kana iwe wakamboona vana pamafoni avo pavanenge vari pamwechete vakagara padivi nedivi mukamuri imwechete, pamwe wakacherekedza kuti havadyidzane kunze kwekungobaya zvinyorwa. Zvese izvo zvinobatanidza zvinozadza nguva, zvinochengetedza hushamwari hwevezera uye zvinobatsira kuchengetedza mwana wako akabatikana uye asingatarise kutya kwekononavirus uye kunetsekana kusinganzvengeki panhau.

Sunungura Ziso Rako Rinoona

Mune imwe pfungwa, mwana mumwe chete akajaira kutariswa akatarisisa paari uye icho chinhu chega chingaite kuti zvive nyore kurarama mukufamba kwenguva padhuze ne24 / 7. Nekudaro, kana wako wega mwana anga asingade kuve muzinda wekutarisa pamberi pekushamwaridzana nevanhu, angangozvida zvishoma izvozvi.

Vabereki vazhinji vevana chete vanobvuma kuita zvakawandisa pane izvo zvaigona kuitwa uye kunofanirwa kunge kuchiitwa nemwana mumwe chete. Kugarisana nevamwe munharaunda mukana wekudzokera shure uye kupa mwana wako mumwechete rimwe basa. Isa mukuru chete mukutarisira mbichana kana kugadzira kudya kwemanheru mazuva evhiki kana kutsvaira. Iwe unozoshamisika nekukurumidza kuti mwana-kunyangwe uyo anonyunyuta-anotanga kunzwa kunakirwa nekupa kumhuri. Kukanda mukati kunoshumira chiyeuchidzo chekuti mwana wako chikamu chemhuri uye haafanire kuve pakati pekucherechedzwa nguva dzese.

Wedzera Nyika Yomwana Wako Chete

Kunze kwekunge iwe uine mucheche kana mudiki, mwana wako anozorangarira pekugara-munzvimbo. Kurudzira kunzwira tsitsi uye simbisa kubatana kumhuri uye shamwari dzepedyo. Ita tsika yekutaura mavhidhiyo kana FaceTime kufona navanasekuru vemwana wako, vanatete, babamunini uye babamunini. Izvi zvinobatsira kuyeuchidza iye ega mwana nezve rake rakakura rutsigiro network uye zvinogona kumuunza padyo nenhengo dzemhuri kupfuura iwe.

Zvipire munzira dzinosanganisira mwana wako. Tenga vavakidzani vakura uye ita kuti mwana wako auye newe paunosiya zvekutengesa pamasuo avo. Taura nezve panodiwa zvipo uye upe kana uchikwanisa. Kumbira wako chete kuti udane vanasekuru vake kana mumwe munhu mumhuri angave ari kunetseka kuti aone kuti vari kuita sei mazuva mashoma. Uya nemasaini ane hanya ayo acharamba aripo nguva refu mushure mekupararira.

Vaka pane Yako Yepedyo Bond

Zvidzidzo zvakatanga na1978 uye zvichangoburwa zvinoratidza kuti vana chete ndivo vanowanzove padyo nevabereki vavo kupfuura vana vane hama. Tora mukana wehukama hwehukama kuti uvake pachisungo ichocho: Wedzera kubhengi rekurangarira remwana wako nekutanga tsika nyowani yakatenderedza chimwe chinhu chisina kumboitwa nemhuri yako - dzidza kutamba chess, zambuko, backgammon kana mumwe mutambo chero mubereki kana mwana haana kumbobvira atamba. Edza kubheka mhando dzakasiyana dzechingwa kana kutanga imwe nyowani chirongwa chekurovedza muviri iwe chaungaite mese.

Nekuda kwechisungo chemubereki-wega mwana chisungo chakasimba, vazhinji vana chete ndivo vanongwarira uye vanonzwisisa manzwiro evabereki vavo uye maitiro. Kushaikwa nevanin'ina kutsausa kana kuparadzira kunetseka kwevabereki, chenjera kuchengetedza kushushikana kwako uye kuzvidya mwoyo kuti udzivirire mwana wako wega kuzvitora nekutakura mitoro isingaenderane nezera rake.

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