Dissociative Chitupa Chitarisiko: A Therapist's Own Experience

Pfungwa dzedu dzinoshanda munzira dzinoshamisa dzekutidzivirira kubva kune zvakashata zvinoitika muhupenyu hwedu hwese. Vaya vanoonekwa kuti vane dissociative chitupa chirwere (DID) vanotiratidza kuti tinokwanisa sei kutsungirira patinogona kurarama mukukuvara kwakakomba uye / kana kushungurudzwa.

Zvinyorwa Kubatikana Mukati anotevera Karen Marshall, ane rezinesi kiriniki mushandi wezvemagariro uye murapi anoona nezveDID. Marshall akaonekwa aine DID pachake uye anoshandisa ruzivo rwake pachezvake kutungamira vatengi vake mukupora. Iyi firimu inoratidza vese Marshall nevatengi vake muzvirongwa zvehunyanzvi uye zvemunhu, zvichitipa tarisiro yepedyo muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwevanhu vane dambudziko iri.

Mutungamiriri wefirimu, Olga Lvoff, anogovera yake sarudzo yekutarisa pane kwavo ruzivo pane kufunga kwenyanzvi. Iye anotsanangura iyo firimu se "hwindo kupinda munyika yekuti vanhu vane DID vanogara sei. Unokwanisa kungova navo. ”

Chiitiko chekuona chemufirimu chakadzama. Inoisa vanhu avo vane DID sezvo isu tichikwanisa kugoverana mumiedzo yavo yezuva nezuva uye kukunda. Hunhu hwepedyo hwemufirimu hunotikurudzira kubvunza kuti huropi hwedu nepasirese zvemukati zvakavakwa sei. "Izvo zvinotibvumidza isu kufunga pamusoro pezvakawanda zvinhu zvinopinda mukunzwisisa kwedu kwechokwadi," anodaro Lvoff.

Muhurukuro neTrauma & Mental Health Report (TMHR), Marshall anopa tsananguro yeDID:

“Dissociative chitupa kusagadzikana chiitiko chekuve nehuviri kana kupfuura hwakasiyana uye hwakaparadzaniswa hunhu huripo mukati memuviri mumwe. Zvikamu zvakasiyana zvinoshanda zvakasiyana munzira imwe neimwe. ”

DZINOGADZIRA senzira yekutsungirira kune kwenguva refu uye zvakakomba kushungurudzika kwehudiki. Paanenge achisangana nezvinhu zvinovhiringidza, mwana anogona kusununguka kubva mumiviri yavo muchimiro chepfungwa chinozivikanwa se "dissociation." Kuti vazvidzivirire kubva mukukuvara, zvikamu zvega zvinogona kupatsanurwa kuita hunhu hwakasiyana. Izvi ndezvekudzivirira iyo yega yega kubva pakurangarira uye nekurangarira zvinoshungurudza zvakaitika. Hunhu hwakasiyana, dzimwe nguva hunonzi "shanduko," hunogona kuratidza nhanho dzakasiyana dzekusimudzira pakaitika kushungurudzwa uku, ndosaka vazhinji vanochinja vachionekwa sevana. Marshall anogovera nzwisiso yake mukuoma kwehupenyu hwemukati:

“Muzviitiko izvi, vana havana kumbowana mukana wekuva vana. Ichi ndicho chikonzero kuporesa vechidiki mukati kwakakosha kwazvo. Zvinogona kubatsira kutanga nyika yemukati inosanganisira dzimba dzemiti kana mapopoma, chero chinhu chingachinakidzwa nevana. ”

Kune avo vane DID, Marshall anotsanangura kuti zvinogona kuve zvakaoma kupatsanura zviripo uye zvakapfuura nekuti zvikamu zvacho zvinonzwika sekunge vachiri kushungurudzika. Marshall anotitsanangurira zvaanoona iye neDID:

"Ndakaona kuti pane zvirikuitika neni, asi handina kukwanisa kunyatso tsanangura kuti chii. Yakauya kumusoro mushure mevhiki rakaoma chaizvo. Ndainzwa kunge musuwo unotenderera, kunge zvese izvi zvikamu zvakasiyana zvaibuda uye ndakanga ndisina simba pamusoro pazvo chero zvaro. Ndaiidhonza pamwe chete pane zvese zvandaifanira kuita, ndopunzika kana ndadzoka kumba, ndobva ndasimuka ndoita zvese zvekare. Izvi zvakaitika kusvikira ndawana murapi anonzwisisa mashandiro eDID. ”

Lvoff inogovera kukosha kwekuve neyakajeka midhiya anomiririra yeavo vane DID. Anocherekedza kuti ndosaka vazhinji vatori vechikamu vakasarudza kuoneka mufirimu, sezvo "vainzwa senge vezvenhau vakakurudzira DID uye mazwi avo haana kumiririrwa." Saizvozvo, Marshall anotaura kuti anofunga kuti "vanhu vanotya avo vane DID. Kutya kuti chikamu chiri kuzobuda chinoda kukuvadza vamwe. Kunyangwe, ivo vanowanzo nyanya kuzvikuvadza pane kuita zvimwe zvinoparadza. ”

Marshall anotsanangura mifungo yake pakunyorwa kwekuparadzaniswa sechirwere uye maitiro ekuongororwa.

“Kune vamwe vanhu, zvinovapa chikonzero chekutambira ruzivo rwavo uye vanzwisise kuti nei zvisina musoro. Neimwe nzira panofanirwa kuve nemvumo yekuve nezvinetso. ”

Rosalee, an switch uyo anogovera "mutumbi" naMarshall, anowedzera kuti:

“Kana zita rakapihwa nehutachiona risingakwani, isu hatina basa, ndezveinishuwarenzi zvakadaro. Zvinoita mutsauko pamabatiro atinoita nemi, asi tichazviona, tinogona kuuya nerimwe zita. ”

Marshay, mumwe wevatengi vaKaren akaratidzwa mu Kubatikana Mukati , Akave nedambudziko rekumugamuchira DID kuongororwa mukati mefirimu. Rosalee anotsanangura kuti ichi chingave chiito chakaoma kuita:

“Kugamuchirwa kunoreva kubata nenyaya yekuti pane chimwe chinhu chisingafadzi chakaitika. Dzimwe nguva vanhu havagone kuenda kunzvimbo ine rima, saka vanorwisa zino nembambo. ”

Marshall anotsanangura maitiro ake ekuziva DID kuumba maitiro aanobata nawo nevatengi vake panguva yekurapwa:

"Ini ndinogona kuuya nemhando dzese dzenzira dzekubatsira vanhu, kunyangwe vangave vasingavade. Panguva iyoyo, zvakanaka, tichawana imwe nzira. Semuenzaniso, naMarshay tinotaura nezvevanhu vakasiyana semavara emurarabungu nekuti ndizvo zvinomushandira. ”

Mushure mekupedza nguva yakawanda vachiongorora kushungurudzika kwavo uye kudzika-kudzika mune zvakapfuura, Rosalee anotsanangura kuti zvikamu zvakasiyana zviri mukati me "muviri" zvinogona sei kunakidzwa nekuwana mufaro. Ivo vanoona:

“Hatidi kuva munhu mumwe chete. Hatizive kuti sei, uye hazvina musoro. Iwe unova sei mumwe? Tinoziva kuwanda, asi hatizive kuva vamwe. ”

Unogona kutarisa tirera ye Kubatikana Mukati pano. Zvinyorwa ichave ichitepfenyura pamhepo kutanga paMarch 16 kusvika munaApril 15.

- Chiara Gianvito, Anopa Munyori , Iyo Trauma uye Mental Health Report

- Mukuru Mupepeti: Robert T. Muller, Iyo Trauma uye Mental Health Report

Copyright Robert T. Muller