Kudheerera Kunoshanda Iri Mutambo: Sangana neVatanhatu Mabara

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• Kudheerera Kwakakosha Kuverengwa
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Kana iwe uri kuverenga izvi nhasi, iwe unogona kunge wakasvika pane iyo peji nekuti iwe uri mutsvaki, uchinyunyuta pakati pekuvhiringidzika nehasha, kuyedza kuita pfungwa yepasina musoro nyika yekushanda kudheerera.

Sekureva kwaDavenport, Schwartz, naElliot (1990), kunetswa kubasa, kana mobbing , sekudanwa kwazvinoitwa, “kuedza kwakaipa kumanikidza munhu kubva kubasa nekumupomera zvisina musoro, kunyadziswa, kushungurudzwa zvakajairika, kushungurudzwa mupfungwa, uye / kana kutya. Iko 'kusunganidzwa nemutungamiriri (s) - kurongeka, mukuru, mushandi pamwe chete, kana kuzviisa pasi - uyo anounganidza vamwe kuita zvakarongeka uye zvinowanzoitika' kuita semhomho '... mhedzisiro yacho inogara ichikuvadza - kushushikana mumuviri kana mupfungwa. kana kurwara nekushungurudzika munharaunda uye, kazhinji, kudzingwa kubva kubasa ”(peji 40).

Mukuyedza kupa hwaro kuti huve nekukuvadzwa kwekushungurudzwa pabasa, ndinoda kuti iwe ufunge nezvekushungurudzwa kunzvimbo yebasa semutambo, uye semitambo yese, inoumbwa nevanhu. Mutambo unonzi "Psychological Terrorism" unozorora pazvirongwa zvematanhatu archetypes, imwe neimwe ichigara chinzvimbo chakakosha mukushusha.

Chinguva chidiki, iwe uchasangana ne Vagadziri , vanofunga kupfuura peji retsika mukutsvaga mhinduro kumatambudziko akadzika emasangano. Kuda kwavo kunomutsa iyo Shato , vanonyora bhuku rekutamba uye vanoshandisa makuhwa, kumanikidza, kusabvisa, uye kusiira kunze kuteedzera mitemo.

Kuzadza mativi ari iwo Vaporsueform , avo mukutsvaga kwavo kwekusuwa kwekuzivikanwa uye simba vanoita madhiri eDhiragoni, uye iyo Vavaki venharaunda . Tevere, iwe une iyo Mufananidzo wemusoro .

Chekupedzisira, pane iyo Mutungamiriri . Iye inyati, isingawanzoonekwa uye isingawanzoonekwa, musuwo wake wakavhurika, zvichiratidza kuda kwake kunyatsoteerera nyaya dzekusaenzana uye kurwadziwa. Iye anorwisa kushungurudza musoro-on, asingazungunuke mukuzvipira kwake kwekumirira "akaomarara kurudyi pane zvisiri nyore" kunyangwe pamutengo mukuru kwaari.

Semutsvagurudzo yeNarrative Inquiry, ini ndaunganidza nyaya dzevanhu vangangoita mazana maviri evanodzvinyirirwa pabasa munzvimbo dze27 nenyika sere. Mukati medzenyaya dzevakauraiwa, mavara akafanana anobuda. Kunyangwe kuiswa muzvikamu kunogona kuwedzeredza zviitiko zvakaoma, zvinotipa zvikwangwani zveavo vatiri kubata navo uye nezvavangaite zvinotevera.

Ngatisanganei nevatambi.

Vagadziri

Vakatambudzwa nekushungurudzwa pabasa kazhinji kazhinji Vagadziri vanoita moyo uzere muhupenyu hwekugadzira, vachiverenga zvakati wandei mumaonero, vachikurudzira hukama nevanhu vakasiyana nepfungwa, uye vachirarama zviwanikwa zvavo zvinonzwika pasi rose. Ivo vanowanzo shanda sevasina kusarudzwa uye vasingadi kuita shanduko vamiririri mumasangano avo, vasina kudzikiswa nemitemo netsika.

Vagadziri vane pfungwa-yemunharaunda asi vakazvimiririra, vanokurudzirwa necuriosities yemukati uye yakasimba kambasi yekomboti, zvinopesana nekuvimba nekusimbiswa kwekunze. Ivo vanopihwa simba nemaonero anopokana nezvavanotenda, vachigara vachiedza kuzvikurira. Izvi zvisikwa zvinoita kubatana munzvimbo dzese, nzvimbo dzekutsvaga, uye nzvimbo dzemukati. Kubatanidzwa kwavo uye kuda kwavo kubvunza mibvunzo kunotsamwisa Dhiragoni, nekuti simba rayo rinopera kana vanhu vachitaura.

Vagadziri vanowanzo kuve chinangwa cheDhiragi nekuda kwechimwe chezvikonzero zvitatu: Kubudirira kwavo, mukurumbira, uye hunyanzvi zvinotyisidzira vamwe vasina kuchengetedzeka; mazano avo ekugadzira anopokana ne "takagara tichizviita nenzira iyi" kufunga kwesangano; kana maitiro avo epamusoro ehunhu anovapa mhosva kuti vafumure maitiro asina chokwadi uye asiri pamutemo anokuvadza vanhu avo kambani inodaidzwa kuti ishumire.

Shato

Madragoni akatsaurirwa kunyora, kutumira, uye kumisikidza bhuku remafambiro ehurongwa uye kutevedzera. Ivo vanombundikira kutsamwa kwavo uye pachena kutsamwa kunopesana nevanopikisa. Dragons akaisa ajenda seye de facto vatungamiriri, vakasarudzwa uye vakasarudzwa vega.

Kryptonite yavo ndeyeVagadziri avo vakananga, uye kazhinji vasingazivi, vanopokana nekodhi yemafambiro Dragons akaisa. Masangano nemadhipatimendi hazviwanzo sanganisira inopfuura imwe Dhiragoni, nekuti paanosangana nemukwikwidzi anofema-moto, kurwa kwekufa kunotevera. Sisitimu dzinobvumidza maDragons, dzinovimbiswa kuti dzinogara dziine mumwe mudonzvo, nekuti kana Dhiragoni ikabuda imwe inokurumidza kukwira kusvika pachinzvimbo chepamusoro, ichiziva ivhu rakaorera pamasimba ayo.

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