Nei Tichifanira Kudzidzisa Vana Vedu nezve Chibvumirano Pakutanga Muhupenyu Hupenyu

Zvemukati

• Kunzwisisa Zvishoma zveChibvumirano
• Ndechipi Chibvumirano Chikuru?
• Chirango uye Chibvumirano Zvakabatana Zvakabatana
• Chibvumirano Ipfungwa Yekutangisa Kudzidzisa Pakutanga
• Vadzidzise Vechidiki, Wobva Wavimba neUngwaru hwavo uye nemoyo

Iyi posvo yakanyorwa nemunyori munyoriKaia Tingley, anove munyori, masisitimu dhizaini, uye chipangamazano wekushambadzira wakasununguka uyo anogara achifungisisa nzira dzekuita kuti nyika ive nzvimbo iri nani. Kana iwe uchida kumubata, ndapota svika pane LinkedIn pano. Unogona kuwana zvimwe zvekunyora kwake paMedium pano.

"Ndinofanira kutaura newe nezvemwanakomana wako." Vamwe Amai vanobva kuchikoro kwemwanakomana wangu vakauya kwandiri neziso rakakomba kwazvo, uye kwekanguva ndakanzwa kudonha mugomba redumbu rangu.

Ndakanga ndisingamuzivi, asi mudzimai uyu anga ari muperekedzi parwendo rwezuva remunda kunoona bhaisikopo paZach Scott Theatre mudhorobha reAustin. Mwanakomana wangu akatasva naye kuenda kuchiitiko. Chii pasi pano chaive chaitika icho chakapa mukana wekuvhurika wakakomba kudaro?

“Warera mukomana mudiki kupfuura vamwe vese!” akaenderera mberi, achinyemwerera mukunyemwerera kukuru uye achisvika paruoko rwangu.

Iko kumanikidza muura hwangu kwakasununguka zvishoma. Akange ave mangwanani akaomarara, azere nekusafambidzana, kutadza kubatika, uye vazhinji vangu ndichinzwa sekutadza kwakazara semubereki.

Ini ndanga ndanyanyisa kugadzirira mhinduro yakanaka panguva ino.

Kunzwisisa Zvishoma zveChibvumirano

Akaenderera mberi achindiudza kuti vana vedu vanga vachitamba sei pamwe chete pa zipline munzvimbo yekutamba mushure mekuratidzwa. Achida kutora nguva yekunakidzwa, akange akumbira mwanakomana wangu kuti asundire mwanasikana wake pa zipline kuitira kuti atore pikicha.

Mhinduro yake yaive, "Chokwadi, chero bedzi zvanaka naye." Ipapo akatendeukira kwaari ndokuti, "Kwakanaka here newe?" Musikana mudiki akabvuma, uye photo-op yakaenderera sekuronga.

Hapana chikuru dhiri, handiti?

Asi mukadzi uyu akarohwa nehana nemaitiro emwanakomana wangu. Akamutarisa akamirira kuti atore mvumo yemusikana wake asati amubata kuti amusundidzire pamwe neiyo zip line.

Akabvuma kuti kunyangwe iye aifarira zano rekubvuma mune dzidziso, anga asati abatanidza iwo madhiri kusvikira aona chiitiko ichi chidiki. Asi mwanakomana wangu akanzwisisa kuti kubvumidzwa kwaireva kuti aifanira kutanga abvunza shamwari yake. Kunyangwe hazvo Amai vanga vatove NOKUDZIDZA kwekudyidzana, akanzwisisa shamwari yake kuti ndiyo yekupedzisira mutongi kuti ndiani akamubata kana kwete.

Pakanga paine misodzi mumaziso ake apo akandibata maoko angu ese achindiudza nyaya iyi. Ndakawana maziso angu chaiwo achinyorovera achipindura manzwiro ake.

“Ndine tariro yenguva yemberi yenyika izvozvi, nekuda kwemabatiro akaita mwanakomana wako mwanasikana wangu. Sezvinobvumwa hwaive hunhu hwakavanzika, asi hwakanyanya kusimba nekuda kwaizvozvo. ”

Ndechipi Chibvumirano Chikuru?

Saka chii chakange chakanyanya kuzivikanwa nezveiyi diki kuchinjana? Chii chakaita kuti ini nevamwe amai ava tinyanye kushushikana?

Yaive yekuti mwanakomana wangu akasarudza kubata shamwari yake semusoro wenyaya yesarudzo dzake, kwete sechinhu chakakumbirwa naamai vake. Akakumbira mvumo yake.

Ndakanga ndichidada zvisingaite naye.

Uye pandakamuudza izvi, akangondipindura kuti anga ari iye shanduko yaanoda kuona munyika, saGandhi. Ini handisi kugadzira izvi.

Chirango uye Chibvumirano Zvakabatana Zvakabatana

Hwaro hwechirango chinoshanda kuremekedza nguva dzose .

Mwanakomana wangu, ane makore manomwe ekuberekwa, uye fan guru revanhu vakaita saMC Yogi & Matisyahu, neruremekedzo rweedu rweAki uye zvandinofarira eclectic. Ini ndinofungidzira iwe unogona kudaidza iyi inofambira mberi yekurera? Kana kuti pamwe shanduko iri mutsika ndeyekupedzisira kubata nevechidiki vepasirese. Mumwe aigona kutarisira.

Ndinovimba mukomana wangu mudiki anodzidza, kunyangwe paine hunhu hwakawanda hwetsika neimwe nzira, kuti VANHU vese vanhu zvidzidzo, uye kuti HAPANA munhu chinhu chinofanira kuve chake, chinoshandiswa, kana kushandiswa. Ndinovimba anodzidza kuti kuve mukutungamira nekutonga haisi iyo nzira yekutungamira chaiko.

Chibvumirano Ipfungwa Yekutangisa Kudzidzisa Pakutanga

Tinodzidzisa nemuenzaniso, kwete nemashoko edu chete .

Dai ndakamirira kutanga kudzidzisa kubvumidza kumwanakomana wangu kudzamara agadzirira kutanga kudanana kana kuratidza kufarira vasikana-ingadai yakanonoka.

Kana ini ndikatadza kudzidzisa mwanasikana wangu pazera diki kwazvo kuti ane kodzero yekutarisa kuti chii chaanoitirwa, uye naani - angadai akanonoka.

Kana ndikatadza kudzidzisa kukosha kwemvumo, zvese zvakapihwa uye zvakagamuchirwa, kune vese mwanakomana wangu nemwanasikana wangu - vaizopinda mukukura kwavo vari panjodzi.

Tinofanira kukunda makore zviuru zvishanu + zvekudzidziswa kumba kwedu - zvevarume sezvinhu uye vakadzi sezvinhu. Vanhu vakagadzira iyi pfungwa isingashandi pakutanga. Tinogona kusazvigadzira, asi chete kana isu tichiziva kudiwa kwekutanga reboot.

Chibvumirano ipfungwa yekuti munhu wese anofanirwa kunge achidzidza. Ichokwadi kuti vanhu vese vakasikwa vakaenzana, uye vanokodzera iwo mukana wakafanana wekukudziridza pfungwa dzakakoshesa dzekuzvitonga uye kuremekedza vamwe.

Ini nemurume wangu tinodzidzisa kubvumirana kuvana vangu nekuona chokwadi kuti vanozivana zvizere sevakaenzana. Isu tinoedza zvakare kuteedzera nhungamiro yedzidziso inoshanda iyo yave ichizivikanwa nekusingaperi pasainzi yenyika.

Chirango ndicho chimiro chinobatsira mwana kuti akwanise kupinda munyika chaimo achifara uye zvinobudirira. Ndiyo hwaro hwekukudziridza kuzvidzora kwemwana pachake. Anoshanda uye akanaka kuraira ndezvekudzidzisa nekutungamira vana, kwete kungovamanikidza kuteerera. -Pediatrics & Hutano hweVana

Munyika umo hutungamiriri hwedu hwezvematongerwo enyika hunowanzo tenderera kune zvakashata zvakanyanya zvekupokana kwevana uye kuyedza kutonga nekumanikidza uye kutyisidzira, tinofanirwa kudzidzisa nekuteedzera mumwe muenzaniso kwavari.

Vadzidzise Vechidiki, Wobva Wavimba neUngwaru hwavo uye nemoyo

Iyo programming yezvatinotarisira inotanga iyo nguva yatinozvarwa. Vabereki vedu vanoteedzera uye vanoratidza muenzaniso kwatiri nzira yatinofanirwa kuita.

Kukura kwekuziva kunotanga kusati kwazvarwa, kutanga nemanzwi akanzwika kubva mukati medumbu uye mhedzisiro yemakemikari mukadzi anoviga mumwana wake amniotic fluid.

Izvi zvinogona kuve nerunyararo uye nerudo pesvedzero, kana vanogona kumanikidzwa pamwe nekutyisidzirwa nekutyisidzira - zvinoenderana nepfungwa nemanzwiro amai paanenge aine nhumbu.

Kana mwana achinge azvarwa, matauriro ezwi, huwandu hwekutaurirana, uye huwandu hwenzvimbo yemumba hunosarudzira zvakasarudzika mwana wega wega nezve nyika yavakazvarirwa mairi, uye mavanoda kudzidza kurarama.

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Kana isu tichida kugadzira nyika umo rudo nekuremekedza zviri izvo zvimiro, isu tinofanirwa kutanga izvozvi. Vana vedu vanofanirwa nerudzi rwekutsigirwa pamoyo mukukura kwavo kunozovabatsira kugadzira mhando dzehuropi uye zvisikwa zvakagadzirira kusangana nematambudziko akakura epasi redu nhasi.

Chinetso ndechekuti isu sevabereki tiri kuyedza kugadzira nharaunda yatinotarisira, asi tisati tamboona. Isu tiri chizvarwa chinoshanduka. Icho chinetso chakaoma, uye hatizove takakwana. Asi pamwe tinogona kuve nani. Zvakakodzera kuedza.