Chii Chinonzi Kudonha Kwesarudzo Kunoti Nezvedu?

Denim. Yaimbove yemaruwa eAmerica kana yaipfekwa nevashandi vefekitori vaida zvipfeko zvebasa zvakasimba. Kusvika zvaita chimwe chinhu.

Hosiery. Yakambotaridzika kunge inokwezva pamakumbo evakadzi, yaipedzeredzwa nemachira epamusoro, senge sirika, makushe uye satini. Kusvikira yanyangarika zvachose. Vakadzi vaigara vakatakura chipikiri chechipikiri muzvikwama zvavo (kumisa kumhanya mumatokisi avo) vakapemberera. Uye avo vakatuka pantyhose hapana mubvunzo kuti vakabuda ndokudhakwa.

Nguo dzekupfeka. Vakanga vakareba uye vasinganzwisisike pane vese varume nevakadzi. Pavakazobviswa chete ndipo pawaigona kuona masutu epamusoro, madhirezi, uye machira anoyerera pasi. Iye zvino une rombo rakanaka kana iwe uchigona kuvawana chete kune yepamusoro-kumagumo madhipatimendi zvitoro, uye kunyangwe ipapo, chete online.

Shangu dzekupfeka nemapombi . Varume vakambomira kuti shangu dzavo dzipenye paChishanu manheru, vachipuruzira imwe yemari yavo hombe (zvaimbove iwe waigona kutaurira zvakawanda nezvemukomana neshangu dzake) uye vakadzi vaipfeka pombi - inonongedza kana peep-chigunwe - kureba kutaridzika kwete kwete chete makumbo avo, asi vachirumbidza chero chimwe chavaive vakapfeka. Hats. Magorovhosi. Nhasi? Isu dzimwe nguva tinovaona kumichato, asi kunyanya pamabiko emuchato pachawo vasati vachinja kuita mafiripi-pakati nepakati pekugamuchira.

Iwe unogona kubvunza - chii chakaita kuti ndiende pane rant? Zvakanaka. Ndichazvibvuma. Bhaisikopo. Kunyangwe ini ndakanga ndanzwa nezvazvo hupenyu hwangu hwese, ini ndakazoona Iyo Philadelphia Nhau paTurner Broadcasting. Kukwira pamberi pangu pachiratidziro paive nembatya dzakashongedzwa zvakanaka, zvishongedzo zvakanaka, uye masoni akagadzirwa masutu - zvinhu zvaunotarisira kubva kuma1940 Hollywood asi kuzviona izvozvi kwakandiyeuchidza imwe nguva yakanyanya kunaka. Kunyangwe nhaurirano iyi "yainge yakashongedzwa," nevatambi vachishandisa zvine hungwaru mazwi uye mazwi aiita kuti vanzwike sekunge ndivo vakaita kupfuura 9th grade. Ndinoyeuka amai vangu vachipfeka saizvozvo, uye anchor enhau pane ese matatu makuru network 'enhau nhau dzichirira kudaro. Panzvimbo pekundifadza kuti vanhu vaitaridzika, vakapfeka, uye vachiridza saizvozvo, zvese izvi zvakandishungurudza, sekunge ndaichema chimwe chinhu.

Ndine chokwadi kunyangwe iwe uchindifunga ndisina pfungwa, ini ndinogona kudzikinurwa. Chokwadi chinotaurirwa, kune zvikamu zvangu zvakapemberera degree rekupfeka pasi pamusoro pemakore. Kune avo imi munondifunga ndisina kuchengeteka nekuti ini ndiri kutotaura nezvazvo, zvakadaro? Hapana kunetseka. Handizozvitora pachangu. Hapana anogona kudzvinyirira mufaro wangu mukutenga zvewindow kuBarney's yeNew York, ndichiona kutenga kukuru kwandingawana kuMarshall's, kana kutsvaga eBay yejasi rejasi remazambiringa uye kuyedza kukanda pamwe "kutarisa."

Zvichida ndiri kuchema kurasikirwa kwema semi-maitiro. Kunyangwe munhu achivaraidza mumba memumwe - kunze kwemamwe madzinza anogona kunge akachengeta tsika shomanene - kuenda kumba kwemumwe munhu kunodya kunogona kureva mapoto nemapepa epepa, kapu dzewaini dzepurasitiki uye zvakaputsika zvakazara zvakapendwa sirivheri kuti zviite sezvakakosha. Chaicho china, sirivheri, uye kristaro zvakachengetwa kure, kukanganikwa, kana kutengeswa paBay, nezvizvarwa zvitsva zvichiratidza kusafarira kuzvitora. Kupfeka kwemanheru kunze zvinoita sekureva (pamwe) kukanda juzi rakaremara pamusoro pejean yakabvarurwa pamabvi. Uye kutora kutiza kumwe kunoreva kutarisa kumakumbo ane mvere dzemurume akapfeka zvikabudura akagara padhuze neni. Ndinoziva. Ini ndainzwa ndakasviba.

Ndiyo here huru "kuenzana" vokuAmerica saka zvakasimba kudzivirirwa? Handina kumbofunga nezve chero chayo sechinhu "chekirasi" zvakadaro. Mumwe munhu akapfeka zvakanaka zvawo anogona kunge akakanda pamwechete chipfeko kubva kuChivavarira, uye ini handife ndakaziva mutsauko. Mazuva aya ndaingovaudza kuti vane hanya zvekusapfeka ziya ravo.

Dierdre Clemente, maari 2015 Nguva Magazini chinyorwa chakanzi Nei uye Rini maAmerican Akatanga Kupfeka Zvakanyanya? rinoritsanangura neiyi nzira: “Vanhu veAmerica vanopfeka zvavo. Sei? Nekuti zvipfeko rusununguko - rusununguko rwekusarudza maitiro atinozviratidza isu kune nyika; rusununguko rwekukanganisa mitsara pakati pemurume nemukadzi, vakuru nevadiki, vapfumi nevarombo. Kukwira kwechimiro chemhando yepamusoro kwakadzikisira zvakadzika mitemo yemireniyumu-yakaraira hunyanzvi hunoonekwa kune vakapfuma uye vanoshanda zvipfeko zvevarombo. Kusvikira padarika makore anodarika zana apfuura, pakanga paine nzira shoma kwazvo dzekuvanza nzanga yako. Iwe wakazvipfekedza-chaizvo-pane rako ruoko. Nhasi, maECOs vanopfeka shangu kuti vashande uye vachena vemasabhabha evana vanogadzira avo LA Raider hat zvishoma kure kure kudivi. Makorokoto ehurongwa hwepasi rose, musika wekupfeka wakazara nemafambisirwo ekusanganisa-uye-kuumba dhizaini yemunhu. Anoenderera mberi nekunyora nhoroondo yenguva yekuti takashanduka sei kubva pakupfeka-kupfeka, gurovhisi kutora vakadzi uye kupedza chigamba chake nei iye, pachezvake, achida kupfeka zvisina kujairika. “Ndakapa makore gumi apfuura ehupenyu hwangu ndichiedza kunzwisisa kuti 'nei' uye 'riini' patakatanga kupfeka nenzira iyi - uye ndasvika pakufunga kwakawanda. Asi kwemaawa ese uye zvinyorwa, ndagara ndichiziva chikonzero nei ndichipfeka zvisina kujairika. Zvinonzwa zvakanaka. ”

Saka ndinofanira kuzvibvunza kana kupfeka kuri pamusoro pekunzwa kwedu kana kuti isu kuda kunzwa. Sei ndichida kutarisa Dhiabhorosi Anopfeka Prada kakawanda? Imhaka here yenyaya yakamonyoroka yeCinderella nyaya inotevera Ann Hathaway kudzika mune izvo shamwari dzake dzinoona fashoni purigatori? Kana kuti ndezvekuona vakadzi vakapfeka zvakashongedzwa vakapfeka zvizere, Meryl Streep achikanda bhegi rake remadhora mazana mashanu padhesiki remubatsiri wake kana Stanley Tucci achibvuma chimiro chake chitsva cheprotege achiti, "Ini ndinofunga basa redu raitwa pano?" Izvo zvese izvo. Hapana anonditadzisa kuyeva vanhu vakapfeka zvakanaka. Mupfungwa dzangu munogara muine zvimwe zvinhu zvandinogona kuita panyama kuti ndiite kuti ndinzwe zvirinani nezvekuti ndinotaridzika sei sezvo paine zvinhu zvandingaite kusimudzira huropi hwangu. Dzese dzakabatana.

Saka isu tinowana sei iyo balance pakati "Handisi kupfeka kufadza chero ani zvake, saka enda paundi jecha" uye “Mapfekero aunoita anoratidza kuti unoremekedza vamwe uye vamwe sei?” StylishlyMe.com's Vanessa Rodriguez anotipa matipi ekuti ungapfeke sei asi usapfuure mune yake chinyorwa Mapfekero Aungaita Classy - 5 Basic Style Matipi iwe aunofanirwa Kuziva. Anobvuma, “Kugadzira yechinyakare hakusi kwenguva. Nguo yekushanduka kwemasoja nemapombi ane mavara engamera iwe aunotenga nhasi acharamba achipfekwa makore gumi kubva zvino. Kutenga imwe yakanaka pearl mhete mhete inodarika iwo gumi mairi emashongedzo echitaurwa mhete ayo achapasa gore mushure mekutengwa kwavo. Ndiwo musambo wakashongedzwa unogona kupfekwa pabasa, Svondo brunch, rwendo rwekunotenga muguta, kana kutenderera nyika. ” Anosanganisira mapfekero ekushongedza, kunyatsozvifumura (midriffs isina kupfeka, masiketi mapfupi, uye cleavage yakavhurika) haisi chikamu cheiyi equation - kunyanya yapfuura makore makumi maviri nemashanu - uye kunaka uye machira emhando yepamusoro akakosha, kunyangwe unongova nembatya shoma shoma.

Chinhu ndechekuti, kupfeka zvakaomarara kwakafanana nekuvhuna zvinhu zvako zvakanaka kana vanhu vauya kuzodya. Chirevo nezve manzwiro aunoita pamusoro pako uye panguva imwechete, "kurapa" vamwe kune chimwe chinhu chawakatora nguva uye nesimba kuti uise pamwechete. Kana chikafu chichiita sekunge chinotaridzika uye chinonaka zvirinani pane iwo anoyevedza Lenox mahwendefa emanheru amai vako avakakupa kare kare, saka kupfeka kuenda kunotenga neshamwari kana kukwira ndege hakuna kusiyana.

Saka ndinokubvunza: ndiri munhu asina tariro wekurasa here? Imhaka here yekuti NDAKAONA vanhu vachipfeka zvakanaka muhudiki hwangu kuti ndinogara ndichibvaruka pamusoro pekuti zvinhu zvachinja sei? Pamwe. Asi mune iyo Richlyrooted.com post Kudzoreredza Iyo Yakarasika Art yekupfeka Up, blogger anonzi Elsie, akazvarwa muna 1988, anogovera akawanda manzwiro angu. Ichi chinhu chidiki chinotapira hachina kumbogara mumakore gumi umo vanhu vaigara vakapfeka chero chinhu kunze kwemuchato. Uye anobvuma kuti paanopinda mumaresitorendi uye achiona vanhu vachidya mumatangi avo, anonzwa kunge nzanga yarasikirwa nechimwe chinhu. "Ndinoona kuti zvinoita kuti ndiite kunge chembere isina hunhu inochema kuchema kwemipfekero," anodaro Elsie. “Asi mapfekero atinoita anotibata mazuva ese ehupenyu hwedu, saka ichi hachisi chinhu chakakosha kufunga nezvacho muhupenyu hwakaongororwa? Kune zvakawanda zvakanaka zvinhu zvinogona kuitika kana iwe ukatanga kupfeka zvakanaka. Asi sekufunga kwangu nezvazvo, mhedzisiro inokosha yakamira: kuremekedza. Tinowana kuremekedzwa kwakanyanya kubva kune vamwe patinopfeka zvakanaka. Zvinotonyanya kukosha, tinodzidza maitiro ekuzviremekedza isu pachedu. ”

Saka nguva inotevera paunoona chembere iyi-bvudzi rakawana muchembere akapfeka bhutsu-refu-nhete aine bhurugwa rake rakagwinha rakapindirwa mukati maro rakapfekedzwa nejira refu-refu turtleneck poncho achiimba jazz karaoke mubhawa yekudonha, ziva kuti kwaive kusiri tsaona kuti ini ndaive pamwe akawedzeredzwa panguva iyoyo. Sezvo ndanga ndiri mudzidzi anoshingairira amai vangu vanogara vakapfeka-nguva uye bhaisikopo bhaisikopo ine nzvimbo yakapfava yevakashongedzwa zvakanaka vanhu uye nhaurirano inokwezva, ndinoziva kuti ini ndinogona kungoona chete zvisaririra zvechero ipi yeiyi pane mubairo wekuratidzira unoratidza paTV. Munhu chete wandinomiririra, zvakadaro, ndini. Uye ini ndinotora izvo zvakanyanya.