Iwo Akasarudzika Ekuvhara Mapatya Mugovana

Kubva pane zvakaitika kwandiri semapatya uye ndichishanda nekusingaperi nemapatya emazera ese, ndinogona kugumisa zvakanaka kuti ruzhinji rwevanhu vanofunga kuti matwins anonyaradza uye akakosha, ayo anofungidzirwa kuti anosanganisira nyika yehukama hwakabatana. Kurwa, inova nyaya chaiyo yemapatya, inoitwa kureruka kunyangwe kana hasha dzakanyanya dziri pachena. Vabereki, shamwari, vamwe vane mukurumbira, uye kunyangwe varapi vezvepfungwa vachati, “Edzai kuwirirana. Tumira mapatya ako kadhi reHallmark. ” Asi kuwirirana kwakaomera mapatya. Hasha pamapatya ako dzinorwadza uye dzinovhiringidza asiwo chiratidzo chekutsvaga kwakadzama kwekuzivikanwa kwakasiyana.

Chaiwo-ehupenyu mapatya, achienzaniswa nemifananidzo yakasarudzika yemapatya, zvirokwazvo anotarisana nematambudziko ekuva vanhu vane mavara akapatsanuka uye akasarudzika.Kubva paucheche zvichienda mberi, mapatya anozviyera mumwe kune mumwe, izvo zvinounza godo nekuodzwa mwoyo mukati memunhu uye mumapatya avo. Kuwirirana pamwe nekudzora makwikwi uye kudzikisira zvisirizvo zvinotarisirwa zvechokwadi rwendo rweupenyu hwese. Kutora nhanho yekutanga yekuziva kuti wakasiyana nemapatya ako kurwa kukuru. Kurwira kutsanangura misiyano kunosanganisira kuvaka imwe pfungwa yako pachako iyo yakavakirwa pane chaiwo-ehupenyu zviitiko zveumwe, uye kunzwisisa ego miganhu-izvo zviri zvemumwe mapatya uye ndezvipi zveimwe rimwe mapatya. Kunzwisisa miganhu ye ego kunoda huwandu hwakakomba hwekufungisisa uye kutsunga murwendo rwekuva munhu. Kuenderera mberi kwekurwa pamusoro pegan miganhu, kugovana, uye mutoro zvinowedzera "matambudziko anosangana nemapatya" mukuwirana.

Kunzwisisa kutsva kweTwin Hukama: Kubva kuHarmony kuenda KuEstangement uye Kusurukirwa (Barbara Klein, Stephen A. Hart, naJacqueline M. Martinez, 2020) vanoratidza kuti sei zvakaoma kuti mapatya agarisane, kushandisa dzidziso yemapatya uye nyaya dzeupenyu dzemapatya ari kuedza kuve ivo uye nekuremekedza mapatya avo. Basa redu, kubatana pamwe nemamwe mapatya, zvakare kunongedzera nzira dzekuvandudza hukama hwemapatya.

Semuenzaniso, kana kurwa kuri kuwedzera matambudziko, saka edza kumisa mhando yekutaurirana iyo inokonzeresa kurwa.

Iwe unofanira kurega rini kutarisira mwana wako? Mhinduro chaiyo ndeye, chete kana zvichidikanwa.

Uye zvakare, matambudziko akasarudzika ekuve mapatya munyika isiri mapatya anokurukurwa. Ruzivo rwekuti ungafambidzana sei nevamwe vako, vezera rako, uye mabhosi zvinoratidzwa kuburikidza nenyaya uye mazwi chaiwo emapatya.

Mukupedzisa, kusimba kwemanzwiro ehukama hwemapatya kwakanyorwa mumashoko emapatya. Dimikira rekuti hukama hwemapatya hunogona kuita kunge chinotenderera chinotenderera chinoshanduka / chichiumbika kubva mukufara uye kugovana nehasha nekushungurudzika zvinotsanangurwa.

Runyararo runowanikwa nemapatya kana vachiverenga kana kunzwa mamwe mapatya achigovana marwadzo avo nehukama hwavo husingatarisirike hwese kupora uye kwakadzika. Iyo yakadzika meseji ye "Nyowani Kunzwisiswa kweTwin Ukama" ndeyekuti kuve mapatya idambudziko rinogona kugadziriswa kuburikidza nekuedza uye nechinangwa. Kutora kurerutsa kuti kuva mapatya kuri nyore kunotungamira mukutsamwa kusingagadziriswe kusingakwanise kukurirwa. Chete nekutsunga kwechokwadi kuve vepedyo vanhu vanogona mapatya kukohwa zvakanakira twinship.

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