Kurera Mapatya Kuti Vave Mumwe Neumwe uye Shamwari Dzinotendwa

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• Zvinogona Kuita Vabereki Kukudziridza Hunhu muVana Vavo Mapatya
• Mhedziso

Zvinogona Kuita Vabereki Kukudziridza Hunhu muVana Vavo Mapatya

Kurera vana mapatya ibasa rakaoma iro rinounza akasarudzika uye akaomarara matambudziko epfungwa uye anoshanda anoda kuzivikanwa, kunzwisiswa uye kugadziriswa. Kurera mapatya kunotora nguva uye kufunga. Iko hakuna mhinduro dziri nyore kana refu-renji, nzira dzisingachinjiki dzekushandisa. Kune mamwe maitiro akaedzwa uye echokwadi anoshandiswa nevabereki vepfungwa. Mienzaniso yemaitiro anoshanda anosanganisira:

1. Kupfeka mapatya zvakasiyana.

2. Kupa mapatya ako akapatsanura dzimba dzekurara pazvinogoneka.
3. Kuparadzanisa mapatya muchikoro nekukurumidza sezvazvinogona, sezvo ino nguva yekuparadzanisa inobatsira mapatya kukura kuva maari.
4. Kuita shuwa kuti mapatya ega ega ane shamwari dzawo pamwe neshamwari dzakagovaniswa.
5. Kukurudzira zvido zvakasiyana pazvinenge zvichibvira.
6. Kudzidzisa vana vako kuti haasi ese matoyi uye zvipfeko zvinogona kugoverwa.
7. Kushanda nevana vako pavanorwa kuti vanzwisise kuti "ndezvani" uye "ndiani anokanganisa" izvo zvavanoti haisi mhosva yavo.

Aya maitiro akajairika ezvitendero uye zviito zvakakosha asi hazvina kukwana. Sarudzo dzemunhu nezve hunhu hwemwana wega wega dzinofanirwa kuzivikanwa nekukudziridzwa.

Pasina kupokana, chinetso chakakosha kuvabereki ndechekukudziridza hukama hwakasimba uye hwakasiyana, hwakaparadzana nemwana wega wega. Kusungirirwa kwakadzama pakati pemubereki nemwana kunodzivirira mapatya kubva pakuzivikanwa-pamusoro pavo. Kugadzira nekusimudzira kusarongeka ndiyo hwaro hwehurefu-hwakazara hutano hwepanyama nemuviri wemapatya. Kupa vana vako sarudzo yekuzvisarudzira kwavo kuchavagonesa kukudziridza pfungwa yakasarudzika yavo vakasununguka uye zvakasununguka.

Kuzvimiririra kwemwana wega wega kunoenderana nekubatanidzwa kwemubereki nemwana uye mapatya. Kutsvagurudza kwangu kunoratidza kuti mapatya ane hunhu semapatya uye kuzivikanwa semunhu. Ose maviri mazita aya akapindirana, izvo zvinokonzeresa kurwa, chigumbu, uye simba risingasvikike tarisiro. Kana mubatanidzwa wemubereki nemwana ukadzvanywa nekuda kwekuwanda kwekubata mapatya, mapatya anozonyatso kuzivana uye kuvhiringidzika nezvekuti ndiani ane chekuita nezve zvavanoda zvakasiyana nezvido zvavo. Kupindirana kunogadzira-kuvimba pane mumwe nemumwe uye kunogona kutungamira mukusungwa kwakakomba kwekusimudzira muhupenyu hwese.

Mapatya anogona kutya kuve ivo pachavo - vakanyanya kugona ivo - nekuti vanozogona kukuvadza kana kuodza moyo hama yavo kana hanzvadzi nekuva iye "ari nani." Kana mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, mapatya haakwanise kuzvinyatso kuzvitsaura kubva pamapatya avo. Semuenzaniso, kukireshi hanzvadzi yangu yakadurura pende mumvere dzayo uye ini ndaichema nekuti ndaifunga kuti yaive yangu mhosva. Twin kuzivikanwa kuvhiringidzika idambudziko rakakomba revabereki kuti vatarisire nokungwarira. Nehurombo, amai vangu vaisaziva nezve mhedzisiro yekunditendera kuchengeta hanzvadzi yangu. Kushaiwa kwaamai vangu kwepfungwa mukuzivikanwa kwedu uye kutsamwirana kwakandikurudzira kuti ndinzwisise kuti sei mapatya achinetseka kuwirirana.

Vabereki vanogona kunyatso shandira pane zvakasarudzika nekubata mwana mumwe nemumwe ari kukura seakasiyana. Semuenzaniso, Twin A anofarira kukunzwa iwe uchiimba "Dombo Bye, Mwana," nepo Twin B ichida kukunzwa iwe uchiimba "Old McDonald Aive NePurazi." Twin A anoda kurara nemombe yake yakamisikidzwa, uye Twin B inoda nguruve yake yakakanyiwa. Nyatso kukudziridza izvi zvakakosha-zvavanofarira nezvisingadiwe muvana vako-sezvo misiyano iyi ichakurudzira kukura kwehunhu nenzira inoshanda uye inozivikanwa iyo vamwe vatariri vanogona kushandisa kuratidza hunhu hwakasarudzika seyakajairika uye inofungidzirwa.

Imwe nzira inovandudza kusangana kwevabereki nemwana ndeyekunyora nyaya nezvehudiki hwehudiki zvichibva pane izvo mwana zvaari kuda kukuudza. Chengetedza idzi nyaya mumagazini uye wakaparadzaniswa zvachose uye wedzera pazviri sezvo mapatya ako achikura nekukura. Muenzaniso kubva kumapatya vana vandakashanda nawo unotevera.

Betty, ane makore mashanu, anoshandisa manheru mamwe pamwedzi achishanda pahupenyu hwake nyaya, hwaanoraira kuna amai vake. Betty anoti ndokumbira undinyorere izvi. “Ndinoziva kuti ndiri mapatya. Vabereki vangu vanotaura neni nezve zvazvinoreva kuva mapatya. Ndinofarira kutamba nemunin'ina wangu. Dzimwe nguva ndinoshuva dai ndaiva nehanzvadzi pachinzvimbo chehama. Ndiri kufara kuva nehama yangu yekutamba nayo uye yekupedza husiku ihwohwo. Dzimwe nguva tinorwa zvinoita kuti amai nababa vatsamwe. Tine nguva yakaoma yekugovana matoyi edu uye kurwira mitambo yemavhidhiyo. Asi ndinogara ndiine munhu wekugara naye uye ndinosuruvara kana Benjamin achida kuva ega kana kutamba nemumwe munhu. ”

Benjamin, ane maminitsi gumi mudiki pane hanzvadzi yake Betty, anokumbira amai kuti vanyore pasi nyaya yeupenyu. Anotsanangura, "Munhu wese anondibvunza kuti hanzvadzi yangu Betty aripi nhasi. Ndaneta nekuve mapatya. Betty anotariswa zvakanyanya kubva kushamwari uye vavakidzani. Ndinoshuva kuti dai vanhu vandibvunza kuti ndiri sei. Vabereki vangu nasekuru naambuya vanofunga kuti kuve mapatya kwakakosha. Asi ini handina chokwadi chekuti mapatya akakura kwazvo. Ndaneta nekugovana zvinhu zvangu naBetty. Ndinoshuva kuti dai aisazotamba neshamwari dzangu asi iye anochema uye anovimbisa vabereki vangu kuti anogona kujoina. Ndakafarira Betty zvirinani pataive vadiki. ”

Idzi nyaya dzehupenyu dzinowedzerwa paari sezvo mwedzi unofamba uye unova rekodhi yemanzwiro akanaka uye akaipa mapatya ane kune mumwe nemumwe. Nokuratidza misiyano, iyo yakasarudzika yemapatya ega ega inonyorwa uye inogona kutumirwa kwazviri kana zvichidikanwa. Sezvo mapatya anokura vanonakidzwa uye vanowana nzwisiso yezvavari nekuverenga nezve hupenyu hwavo hwepakutanga. Vabereki vanokwanisa kuona izvo zvakanaka nezvakaipa pahukama hwevana vavo uye nemabatiro avanogona kukurudzira kuve vakazvimiririra. Kukudziridza hunhu hwemwana wega wega kunoda kugona uye kurudziro yekubudirira.

Mhedziso

Mapatya aripo akasarudzika ekurera vana nyaya dzevabereki. Kutanga, mapatya ari padyo chaizvo uye anonetsa kupatsanura. Kurapa mapatya sevanhu pachedu idambudziko rakaoma. Kechipiri, vekunze vanobva kwakasiyana mafambiro vanotenda kuti mapatya ese anofanirwa uye achave padhuze nepadhuze. Uku kufungidzira kwakanakira kweumwe kubatana kunogadzira kumanikidza kukuru kuvabereki nemapatya kuti vave makopi emumwe nemumwe uye zvinoita kuti kurera mapatya kuome. Sevabereki pavanodzidza kuti mapatya akasiyana kubva kune mumwe uye akasiyana sevaviri kubva kune mamwe mapatya maviri, kutarisisa pane kusarudzika kuchashanduka uye kusarudzika kuchakura zvakanyanya. Kugara zvakanaka kwepamoyo kunoenderana neyakaenzana pakati pehukama uye kusungirirwa.