Mini-Memoir: Nyora Yako Nyaya mune makumi mana Maminitsi

Nhau dzinoburitswa kwete chete kuburikidza nemashoko ari pabepa, asi zvakare kuburikidza nekupenda, mimhanzi nziyo, kana chivezwa. Isu tinowanzonzwa kuti, "Munhu wese ane nyaya yekutaura." Zvisinei, kunyangwe kazhinji mumwe munhu anoti, "Ndinoshuva dai ndaiziva kunyora, nekuti ndinoda kurangarira iyi nyaya." Muchokwadi, kana isu tichifunga maererano nerutendo, pachinzvimbo chetarenda, chero munhu anogona kunyora mini-memoir mumaminitsi makumi mana achigadzira zambuko pakati pekare nezvazvino.

Mumaforamu maviri akapatsanura anoratidza hunyanzvi uye zvakanyorwa munguva pfupi yadarika, ndakafara kuona nzira yekuchengetedza zviyeuchidzo izvo zvakabudirira mumakirasi angu - vadzidzi vepayimari kuyunivhesiti uye octogenarians munzvimbo yekubatsira yakabatsirwa. Chakavanzika chakareruka chinouya nekubatanidza chifananidzo kana zano rinokurudzira munhu kuisa peni papepa, sekutaura, uye kugadzira ndangariro.

Iyo Museum of Fine Arts muBoston yakabata "Kuti Uzive Nyaya" muna Kubvumbi. Chinangwa chaive chekuti vatori vechikamu vatarise zvemazuva ano mabasa ehunyanzvi uye, nepeni nepenzura, kuti vagadzire nyaya. Chinangwa chaive chekuunza kunzwisiswa kukuru kwete kwedu pachedu chete, asiwo "nyika yakatikomberedza."

Dave Ardito: Yakagadziriswa Nhoroondo

Chivezwa chinoratidzwa naDave Ardito, chakanzi "Yakagadziriswa Nhoroondo," paArnheim Gallery, Massachusetts College yeArt uye Dhizaini, yakabvunza mibvunzo mubhurocha iro raigona kuita nyore nyore hwaro hwe mini-memoir.

Paive nemagadzirirwo ezvigaro uye izvi zvaiperekedzwa nemibvunzo, "Chii chigaro uye chii chigaro?"

Imwe seti yemacheya akange akanzi "Deja Vu," zvakadaro, ndakaaona se "kubatana." Bhurocha - iro rakagadzirwa nevadzidzi vehunyanzvi - rakabvunzwa, rakapindurwa, uyezve rakabvunzwa kuti: "Zvinorevei kuti" deja vu "? Zvinoreva 'kutoonekwa kare' muchiFrench. Chii chave kutoonekwa pachikamu ichi? ” Iyi mibvunzo yakashanduka ikava mavambo ekukurukurirana pakati pekupfuura-kuyerera kuunganidzwa kweateki aficionados akafadzwa neakasarudzika magadzirirwo. (1)

Ndakazviwana ndichifunga nezve "deja vu." Panzvimbo pemacheya machena, izvo zvandakaona zvaive zvemaranjisi-ane mavara mapuri zvigaro zvakavakirwa padhuze netafura yedu yaTete Josie. Pataive tichiri vadiki uye tichimushanyira, mhuri yaigara yakakwenenzverwa kutenderedza tafura yeyero inoenderana nezvigaro izvi zvisina kugadzikana. Kunyangwe paine imba yekutandarira hombe, taisakwanisa kugara ipapo nekuti mapurasitiki akajeka akafukidza meseji dzekugara. Zvisinei, sezvo kushanya kuItari kunowanzo kuve kwakatenderedza chikafu, kunyangwe patakaita kushanya tisina kuronga, chikafu chakagadzirwa uye tafura iyoyo nemacheya iwayo akazove inzvimbo inodziya yekugovana chikafu nenyaya.

Kubva kuBoston Athenaeum memory memory kumahombekombe

Kazhinji pfungwa dze mini-memoir dzinouya kwatiri kuburikidza nemufananidzo kana ruzha. Yakanga iri muhoro yemifananidzo yemafuta, kwaiitirwa Capital Trio paBoston Athenaeum mamwe masikati. Ndakaerekana ndazviona ndichisvetuka mafungu madiki kumba kwaMbuya naSekuru kugungwa. Paive pane imwe nguva mukutanga kweChirimo patakatanga kubvumidzwa kunyudza zvigunwe mumvura zvinowanzoita chando.

Muridzi wepiano weThe Capital Trio, Duncan Cumming, akakumikidza chidimbu cheSchubert kuna Frank Glazer, mudzidzisi wake.

Cumming akati Glazer akatenda chord yekuvhura inofanirwa kuti, "Teerera, ini ndichataura nyaya."

Sezvo violin, cello, uye piano zvaitaurirana, yangu nyaya yakatanga kuburitswa. Handina chokwadi chekuti Schubert angadai akaonga kutenderera kwangu panguva ye "Impromptu in C minor, Op. 90 No. 1." Zvisineyi, ipapo ini ndanga ndichitora kumeso kwegungwa ndisati ndadzokera kukicheni yekubikira kwaMbuya munguva yekunanzva chando kubva mundiro uye spatula.

Heino pfungwa yekutanga nyaya yako

Mune yangu "Ndangariro Kukoshesa" kirasi ye octogenarians, ini ndakasarudza pikicha uye ivo vaizonyora chero chauya mupfungwa. Imwe yeyavanofarira yaive mutyairi akatsvoda mukoti wechidiki paVJ Day. Takataura kwemaminitsi gumi nemashanu pavairangarira zviitiko. Ipapo munhu wega wega akagadzira yakanyorwa nemaoko, imwe peji ndangariro mukati maminetsi makumi mana. Gare gare isu isu-takagadzirisa-madiki madombo, takawedzera mufananidzo wakasarudzika, tikarongedza mashandiro acho. Idzi dzakarongedza madziro eepaseji gallery sezvakaratidzirwa muchinyorwa uye vhidhiyo. (2)

Vakwegura vari kunyanya kutenda kugona kugovera nyaya dzavo sezvatakadzidzawo kubva kuThe Memoir Project, North End uye Grub Street kubatana. Mumwe mukadzi akataura nezvechiitiko ichi. . "zvakandibatsira kuona kukomborerwa kwandakaitwa uye hupenyu hunoshamisa hwandakararama. Zvakawedzera mufaro wangu." (3)

Iyi inzira yakapusa yekukukurudzira iwe kuti uite sarudzo yekukoshesa ndangariro. Ngwarira kutarisa kuburikidza neyekare mapikicha maalbum. Kana iwe unogona kuenda kukonzati kana kushanyira gallery kana miziyamu. Kana kunyemwerera kwasvika pachiso chako, kumbomira mukutenda, uye bata pfungwa kusvikira iwe watanga kunyora. Heano mashanu danho fomula:

• Kutanga nekufunga nezve iyo pikicha, mufananidzo, kana kushanya iyo yakagadzira yakasarudzika ndangariro.
• Nyora nezve manzwiro anokuputira iwe nendangariro. Tsanangura ivo.
• Tsanangura nzvimbo uye nevanhu vawakatanga kufunga nezvazvo.
• Teerera mazwi avo, matauriro avakaita. Dzokorora hurukuro.
• Tsanangura nei uchionga ndangariro.

Ndangariro dzinofadza uye dzinosuwisa

Hadzisi ndangariro dzose dzinofadza. Nepo kunyora kwendangariro kuchirapa, zvinogona zvakare kurwadza. Muongorori weJungian John A. Sanford, mubhuku rake "Healing and Wholeness," akanyora, "Hupenyu hwedu hunofanira kuva nenyaya kuitira kuti tive noutano. Uye izvi zvinoreva kuti tinofanirwa kupikisana nechimwe chinhu, zvikasadaro nyaya haigone kuitika. "

Mukufunga nezvenyaya yako wega, tanga nekunyora ndangariro dzaunotenda, ndangariro dzekukoshesa. Zvichida mukuita, ndangariro idzo dzinokuvadza dzinopa nzira kurunyararo rwepfungwa, kana kunyange pfungwa yekuzorora uye mufaro.

Copyright 2016 Rita Watson

Nhengo yezvidzidzo yeBoston Athenaeum seAdjunct Professor, Dhipatimendi reChirungu, Suffolk University, Boston, MA.

Zvishandiso

1. Yakagadziriswa Nhoroondo: www.DaveArdito.com
2. Memoir Kunyora Mabhiriji Akare neazvino | Psychology Nhasi, ine mareferenzi
3. Iyo Memoir Project / Grub Street
4. Kuverengera Kuonga: Mudiki waNonna Mudiki uye Yako Memoir l Psychology Nhasi