Lisa Snyder uye Kufa kwaConner naBrinley

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• Kuzviuraya Kunokosha Kuverengwa
• Nei US Suicides Yakadzikira mu2020?

Lisa Snyder ane makore makumi matatu nematanhatu akatarisana nemutongo werufu, akapomerwa mhosva yekuuraya mwanakomana wake ane makore masere, Conner, nemwanasikana wake ane makore mana, Brinley, munaGunyana 23, 2019. Maererano naLisa, Conner aive akashungurudzika uye akatsamwa nekuda kwekushungurudzwa kuchikoro uye akazviuraya nekuzvisungirira mukamuri repasi peimba yavo. Iye anotenda kuti akauraya hanzvadzi yake, uyo akawanikwa akarembera tsoka nhatu kubva kwaari nekuti, sezvaakange amuudza kare, aitya kufa ega.

Rufu rwacho rwakabva rwamutsa fungira. "Zvinenge zvakachengeteka kutaura kuti takabva tangobvunza mibvunzo," akadaro Gweta reDunhu John Adams. "Vane makore masere, kazhinji vandinoziva, havazviuraye." Asi ari kukanganisa.

Kuzviuraya muPreteens: Vane makore masere-Vanozviuraya?

Kunyangwe zvisingawanzoitika, vana vane makore masere vanozviuraya. Vanenge vana makumi matatu nematatu vana vane makore ari pakati pe5 ne11 vanozviuraya gore rega rega; ndiyo yechitatu inotungamira chikonzero cherufu rwezera iri. Musi waNdira 26, 2017, semuenzaniso, ane makore masere Gabriel Taye akazvitora hupenyu hwake mushure mekurohwa nekurohwa nevakawanda veavo vaaidzidza navo kuchikoro chepuraimari kuCincinnati, Ohio. Mazuva maviri gare gare, akazvisungirira nekaiti kubva pamubhedha wake.

Kunyangwe kana vana vadiki vasinga zviite, pfungwa dzekuda kuzviuraya hadzisi chinhu chinofanira kurerutswa. Kumwe kushushikana-kushushikana, ADHD, kusagadzikana pakudya, kuremara pakudzidza, kana kupokana nedambudziko - kunowanzoisa njodzi yekuzviuraya. Nekudaro, inogona kunge isiri iyo yekumisikidza iyo inogadza kuzviuraya vana kure neanozviuraya vanhu vakuru. Ndiro rakakura basa mamiriro ezvinhu anotamba. Kune vana, kuzviuraya kunowanzo tungamirwa zvakanyanya nemamiriro ehupenyu - kusagadzikana kwemhuri, kudheerera, kana kukundikana kwenzanga - pane matambudziko akareba. Mune zvimwe zviitiko, mwana anosangana nekushushikana kusangana, anonzwa kushungurudzika zvakanyanya asi asingazive maitiro, uye ozoita nekukurumidza kuita kuzvikuvadza.

Vana ava vanotarisira kufa zvechokwadi here? Hazvina kujeka kuti chero munhu ari mukati mehusiku hwekusafunga anonyatsofunga kuburikidza nemhedzisiro yezvaanoita. Asi usakanganisa, negiredhi rechitatu, vangangoita vana vese vanonzwisisa izwi rekuti "kuzviuraya," uye vazhinji vanokwanisa kutsanangura imwe kana nzira dzakawanda dzekuzviita. Uye kunyangwe ivo vasingakwanise kunzwisisa zvese zvakashata zverufu (semuenzaniso, vamwe vana vanofunga kuti vanhu vakafa vanogona kunzwa nekuona kana kushandurwa kuita zvipoko), negiredhi rekutanga, vana vazhinji vanonzwisisa kuti rufu harugadziriswe, kureva, vanhu kufa havasi kuzomuka kuupenyu.

Ko Vana Vanozviuraya-Kuzviuraya?

Saka, zviri pachena kuti vamwe vana vanozviuraya. Asi zvakadii nezvekuzviuraya-kuzviuraya? Kana Lisa Snyder achitenda, mwanakomana wake wemakore masere akauraya hanzvadzi yake yemakore mana, nekuti aitya kufa ega. Kana chiri chokwadi, ichi, ndinotenda, chichava chekutanga cherudzi rwacho. Wechidiki mutadzi wekuzviuraya-kuzviuraya wandakasangana naye aive makore gumi nemana, uye senge vazhinji (65 muzana) kuzviuraya-kuzviuraya, akabatwa aive shamwari yepedyo (musikana).

Zvinosuruvarisa, kune vana vazhinji vanofa nekuzviuraya-kuzviuraya, asi ivo ndivo vanobatwa. Vanopfuura vanhu mazana matatu nemazana matatu vakafa mukuuraya-kuzviuraya muAmerica muna2017, vangangoita gumi nerimwe pavhiki. Makumi mana nevaviri vaive vana uye vechidiki vari pasi pemakore gumi nemasere ekuberekwa. Vapari vemhosva? Vakuru varume nevakadzi, nhengo dzemhuri, varipo kana vekare vadikani vavanoshamwaridzana navo, vanamai, uye vanababa. Zviverengero, vanababa vanowanda zvakapetwa kaviri vananaamai vanozviuraya nekuuraya mwana, vana vakura vanowanzotambudzwa kupfuura vacheche, uye pamberi pekuponda, mubereki airatidza humbowo hwekuora mwoyo kana psychosis. Izvo zvinotidzosera kuna Lisa.

Ko Zvakadii naAmai Vanouraya Vana Vavo?

Mumakumi matatu emakore apfuura, vabereki veU.S. Vanamai vanouraya vana vavo vanowanzosiyana zvichienderana nezera remwana. Semuenzaniso, vanaamai vanoita neonaticide - kuuraya kwemwana mukati memaawa makumi maviri nemana ekuberekwa - vanowanzove vadiki (pasi pemakore makumi maviri nemashanu), vasina kuroorwa (makumi masere muzana) vakadzi vane nhumbu dzisingadiwe vasingatorerwe prenatal. Mukuenzanisa navanamai vanouraya vana vakura, ivo kashoma kuti vashungurudzike kana kupenga uye vangangodaro vakaramba kana kuviga nhumbu kubva pakubata. Kuuraya vacheche, kuurawa kwemwana pakati pemazera ezuva rimwe chete uye gore rimwe, kunoitika kunyanya pakati pavanaamai vanoomerwa nehupfumi, vakasarudzika munharaunda, uye vanochengeta-nguva yakazara; kazhinji, rufu rwakaitika netsaona uye zvichikonzerwa nekushungurudzwa kunoramba kuripo ("aisazorega kuchema"), kana amai vacho vairwara zvakanyanya nepfungwa (kushushikana kana kurwara nepfungwa).

Kana zvasvika kune firifi, i.e., kuuraya kwevana vanopfuura makore gumi, kunowedzera kuomarara.Tsvagiridzo inoratidza kuti shanu dzinangwa dzinotungamira kuuraya kwevana vakura: 1) Mukuzvipira, amai vanouraya mwana wavo, nekuti vanotenda kuti rufu nderwe mwana anonyanya kufarira (semuenzaniso, amai vanozviuraya vangangodaro vasingade kusiya amai vavo mwana kutarisana nenyika isingashivirike); b) mune acute psychotic filicide, amai vepfungwa kana vanofara vanouraya mwana wavo pasina chinangwa chinonzwisisika (semuenzaniso, amai vangateedzera mirairo yekufungidzira yekuuraya); c) panouraya kusabatwa zvakanaka kwefidicide, kufa hakurongedzwe asi kunobva mukuwedzera kwekushungurudzwa kwevana, kuregeredzwa, kana Munchausen syndrome nemumiriri; d) mune isingadiwe mwana kuzadza, amai vanofunga nezvemwana wavo semhinganidzo; e) iyo isingawanzoitika, murume kana mukadzi kutsiva filicide, inoitika kana amai vakauraya mwana wavo zvakanyanya kukuvadza pamoyo baba vemwana iyeye.

Kunyange Lisa Snyder asina mhosva kusvikira aratidzwa kuti ane mhosva, zvimwe chokwadi zvakabuda zviri maererano. Mumwe, muna 2014, vana vaLisa Snyder vakabviswa kubva pamba pavo neChild Protective Services. Vakadzorerwa muna Kukadzi 2015. Vaviri, imwe yeshamwari dzepedyo dzaLisa Snyder akaudza mapurisa kuti vhiki nhatu vana vasati vafa, Lisa akamuudza kuti aive akaora mwoyo, aisakwanisa kumuka pamubhedha, uye asisina hanya nevana vake .

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Nei US Suicides Yakadzikira mu2020?