Mapinduriro Aungaita Mibvunzo Yemwana Wako Nezve Denda

NaSheryl Silverstein, Ph.D.

Pakarepo, vabereki vakaputirwa mibvunzo yakaoma kubva kuvana vavo nezve denda iri. “Nei ndisingakwanise kutamba neshamwari dzangu?” "Ndingadzokera rinhi kuchikoro?" "Izvi zvichagara kwenguva yakareba sei?" Iyi mibvunzo inogona kuunza kushushikana kwakawanda muvabereki vari kushamisika zvinhu zvakafanana ivo pachavo.

Tinoda kukupa nemhinduro dzakareruka kumibvunzo iyi. Iyo mibvunzo inobvunzwa nemwana wako uye mapinduriro aunoita zvinoenderana nezera rake uye nhanho yekukura.

Ndokumbirawo unzwe wakasununguka kupindura kune ino blog posvo uine chero mimwe mibvunzo iwe yaungave unayo, uye isu tinokupindura!

Mibvunzo kubva kuvana vadiki: Makore maviri kusvika mashanu

Zvinonetsa mwana mudiki zviri kunyanya pamusoro pekuchengetedza kwavo uye kuchengetedzeka kwevabereki vavo. Vangangoda kuvimbiswa kakawanda kana kazhinji kuti vavabatsire kunzwa vakachengeteka.

Mubvunzo 1: Chii chinonzi coronavirus?

Pindura : Iboka rehutachiona hunorwarisa vanhu, sehutachiona kana hutachiona hutachiona. Inopararira nyore. Ndosaka munhu wese achigara pamba uye nei pasina chikoro kana mazuva ekutamba; saka, vanhu havagone kuchipa mumwe munhu kana kuibata kubva kune vamwe.

Mubvunzo 2: ndinotya kuenda kunorara. Ko kana ukawana hutachiwana ini ndakarara ndichienda kuchipatara kana kufa?

Pindura : Amai naBaba vari kuzvichengetedza uye imi makachengeteka nekugara pamba. Kana tichifanira kuenda kuchitoro, tinopfeka magirovhosi uye kumeso kumeso kuti tizvidzivirire tobva tageza maoko kana tadzoka kumba. Tinozvidzivirira uye tinokudzivirirai kubva pakurwara. Tose takachengeteka.

Mibvunzo kubva kune vepakati-chikoro-chezera vana: Makore matanhatu kusvika gumi makore

Vana vepakati chikoro-zera vana vakatarisana zvakanyanya nechikoro uye kudzidza, mitemo, uye shamwari. Nekuda kwekukanganisa kwakakomba kwemaitiro avo ezuva nezuva, zvinokurudzira kuvana kuvabereki kuti vagadzire maitiro evhiki nevhiki. Kufanotarisirwa uye kunzwa mukutonga kunouya nekuve nerudzi urwu rwekunze chimiro uye kuva neichi chimiro uye kugadzikana kunotaurirana kuchengetedzeka.

Mubvunzo 1: Sei hutachiona uhwu hwakasiyana neuyo wandakawana gore rapfuura? Isu taisafanirwa kuita chero cheizvi ipapo. Sei zvese zvakavharwa?

Pindura : Zvakasiyana nekuti hutachiona uhwu hutsva, hunopararira, uye hunogona kurwarisa vamwe vanhu. Inoratidzika kunge inobata vanhu zvakasiyana. Ndokusaka zvese zvakavharwa. Tinofanira kugara pamba kudzamara hutachiona hwaenda.

Mubvunzo 2: Ndasuwa chikoro, kuona shamwari dzangu, uye kutamba bhora. Izvi zvichagara kwenguva yakareba sei? Ndakabhoikana chaizvo!

Pindura : Ehe, iwe unosuwa zvinhu zvese zvawakajaira kuita. Saka zvakawanda zvikuru shanduko. Asi izvi ndezvenguva pfupi. Kana mangoti zvachengeteka kudzokera kuchikoro, kuva nemitambo yekutamba nekutamba nhabvu, tinokuudza. Parizvino, unenge mwedzi mumwechete wekumirira.

Mibvunzo kubva kune vachiri kuyaruka: 11-18 zera zera

Vechidiki vari kunetsekana nekuchinja kuri kukurumidza kwemuviri, huropi, uye shanduko yemahormone inokanganisa manzwiro, zvishuwo, uye kutonga. Vane kuziva-kwe-kufunga kwese uye kusafa kwavo sevanodzivirirwa kubva panjodzi - izvo zvinogona kuvaisa panjodzi zvichibva pamabatiro avanoita panguva yedenda. Nekudaro, kusangana neshamwari dzavo kwakakosha, saka kushandisa nguva inonzwisisika pasocial media kunofanirwa kubvumidzwa kurwisa kusurukirwa kunouya kubva padanho renharaunda.

Mubvunzo 1: Ibva pamhosva yangu! Ndinogona kusungirira neshamwari dzangu. Hapana wezera rangu anozviwana. Sei ndichifanira kugara pamba?

Pindura : Icho hachisi chokwadi. Vechidiki vanogona kutora hutachiona uhwu vorwara zvakanyanya. Kunyangwe kana vasina zviratidzo, vanogona kuva vatakuri uye kutapura nhengo dzemhuri. Ndokusaka kuve nekugara munzvimbo kunoshanda kune wese munhu, kwete vanhu vakuru chete.

Mubvunzo 2: Sei uchiramba uchindiudza nezve hutachiona uhu? Ndinoziva zvese nezvazvo.

Mhinduro: Ndokumbira utarise zvaunowana. Zvimwe zvauri kutaura hazvina kururama. Heano mazano kune akavimbika mawebhusaiti ane ruzivo nezve COVID-19.

Iyi ingori mishoma yemibvunzo yauri kutanga kubvunzwa nevana vako. Tinoda kunzwa mimwe mibvunzo kubva kwauri uye isu tichaipindura mune zvakataurwa.

Nezve munyori: Sheryl Silverstein, Ph.D. chiremba wepfungwa ane rezinesi muConnecticut uye mwana / mukuru psychoanalyst mukudzidziswa. Iye anobatsira purofesa wekiriniki kuYale University, Dhipatimendi rePsychiatry. Anobatawo sachigaro Association for Child Psychoanalysis Social Issues Committee, ine nhengo dzinoongorora vana uye vachange vachipindura mibvunzo kubva kunzvimbo iyi.