Mumwe Mukomana Anopinda Mubhawa Uye Anoti "Ouch!"

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Ndanga ndichifarira kwenguva yakati rebei nei tichiseka zvinhu zvatinoita. Shamwari yangu Jim C. aigara achindiseka nekuisa izwi rake saiyo dorky uye kutevedzera kufarira kwangu, achiti, "Sei izvi zvichisekesa iwe?"

Pane dzidziso nhatu huru dzekuseka, mbiri dzadzo dzinobatsira kutsanangura baba majee. Kuti ukurukure nezvazvo, heino joko kwauri:

Mumwe mukomana anoenda kuna chiremba wake. Chiremba anomubvunza kuti chii chiri kunetsa. Murume anoti, "Ndatyoka ruoko munzvimbo dzinoverengeka." Chiremba anoti, "Ndingakurudzira kusaenda kunzvimbo idzodzo."

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Ndichiri kuona jee iri richisekesa, kunyangwe ini ndichiziva kuti rinovimba nenzira yakapusa yekuseka - iyo pun. Iyo incongruity-resolution dzidziso [1, 2, 3] inotaura kuti majee akadai anoita kuti isu tisekwe muchikamu nekuti ivo vanogadzira tarisiro, vozokanda chirahwe murondedzero, iyo inoteererwa nemuteereri. Kugadziriswa kwepuzzle kunounza kunakirwa kwechinguva, sezvo muteereri achiona hunyengeri uye achiratidza kugona kuona kuburikidza nahwo. Muchidimbu, kune rwendo rwegogo rwunobatanidzwa. Kugomera kwapashure pacho kunoenderera mberi kunobvumira muteereri kuti asangoratidze kugona kuona kuburikidza nekusazvibata asiwo kuratidza kuti s / he is too too good to find it funny.

Vateereri vanotaura Chirungu vanonzwa chirevo "nzvimbo dzinoverengeka," uye vanobva vangozvinzwa sekureva kwenzvimbo dzakasiyana paruoko rwemurume. Mhinduro yechiremba, pakutanga, haina musoro. Asi nekukurumidza, tinoona kuti chiremba atenderedza mutsara pamusoro wawo, uye akatipa imwezve zvinoreva. Kuwedzera pamusoro, imwe nzira inoreva haina musoro uye haina basa, iyo inowedzera zvakapetwa kaviri kune joke, sezvo zvatinotarisira kuna vanachiremba ndezvekuti varipo kuzotibatsira nematambudziko edu epanyama.

Kuti ukurukure dzidziso yechipiri, ndapota tarisa (kana kuonazve) vhidhiyo inotevera kubva Mugovera Manheru Kurarama, uchiratidza hupenzi hwaWill Farrell mu "More Cowbell" skit. Funga kuburikidza nezvinoita kuti useke, uye nei.

Zvese nezve skit iyi zvinosekesa kwandiri. Hembe dzavakapfeka, chiremerera chavanobhadhara kuna "Bruce Dickinson," asiri munhu kwatiri. Pfungwa chaiyo yekuti cowbell ndiyo ichava fulcrum yenziyo yedombo, uyezve, zveshuwa, kuda kwaFarrell kutarisa kusetsa zvachose. Maitiro aanofambisa muviri wake achitenderera, kufarira kwake ne "chishandiso" chake, uye nekukwira zvishoma nezvishoma kwehembe yake pamusoro pechiuno chake, achiratidza dumbu rake. Isu tinosvikawo pakunakidzwa nekuona Jimmy Fallon achirasikirwa nemano ake ekuramba ari munzvimbo. Paanotanga kuseka achiendesa mitsara yake, iye pachivande anotipa mvumo yese yekuseka. Meseji inoita kunge iri - skit iyi inosetsa, kunyangwe muenzi wemumhanzi ane ruzivo haakwanise kuibata.

Asi chii chikonzero nei izvi zvichisekesa? Zvinoenderana nenyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinoongorora kuseka, zvinogona kudaro isu tinonzwa takakwirira kupfuura mavara aya. Iyo yepamusoro dzidziso [4, 5, 6] inotaura kuti, zvakadzika pasi, isu tese tiri kutsvaga mikana yekunzwa takakwirira kune vamwe vanhu. Kuzivikanwa kwezviratidzo zveprank kunoenderana zvachose nepfungwa yekuti vanhu vari kuwira pasi, vachimanikidza nzungu dzavo pamatanda, uye vachitya nezviitiko zvisina mhosva, havana kukwana. Mu skit, uye pazviratidziro zvakaita se "America Inonakidza Kwazvo Mavhidhiyo Mavhidhiyo," tiri kuseka AT vanhu vatiri kutarisa.

Saka ikozvino, ngatikurukurei nezvejee rababa. Semaonero angu, baba joki inzira yekuti baba vabatane nevana vavo kuburikidza nekuseka. Majee acho anotamba. Vakachengeteka. Baba majee haayambuki chero mitsara yekukodzera. Izvo ndezve misoro isina mhosva iyo isina mukana wekusanzwisisika. Aya majee ane kuswedera uye kudziya kwavari. A joke yababa kuedza kwechikamu chababa vako kubatana newe. Baba vako vari kutora nguva kukupa kuseka zvishoma, uye kugovana ruzivo newe. Semhedzisiro, baba vako vari kukurega uchimuseka ivo nekuda kwekuremara. Ari kukurega uchinzwa kunge uri pamusoro pake, uye gomera kuedza kwake kwekuseka. Muchidimbu, baba joke iyi inzira yekuti baba vako vakuudze kuti, "Unokosha kwandiri, uye ndinokuda."

Baba vako vakakuudza baba majee here? Ndeapi majee ako aunofarira baba? Majee aya anoita kuti unzwe kuswedera padyo naye paunofunga nezvawo?

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