Zvishanu Zvikonzero Zvikuru Zvekugamuchira Iwo Makuru Mashanu Hunhu Hunhu

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Munogamuchirwazve! Mune dzino zvakateedzana, tiri kutsvaga zvakanaka, zvakaipa, uye nehuipi hwehunhu bvunzo. Parizvino, ndavhara zvimwe zvikonzero izvo Myers-Briggs (MBTI) uye Enneagram vane kukosha kunopokana, nei vanhu vachiwanzobata mhedzisiro yavo, uye vakaunza iyo Big Five, sainzi yemhando yehunhu (kana usati watoita, unogona kuzviedza pano). Chikamu chekupedzisira ichi chichajekesa kuti sei maBig mashanu achiita zvirinani uye achimirira kutsoropodzwa kweimwe bvunzo.

1. Vakagadzirwa vachishandisa nzira yesainzi.

Mukupesana neMBTI neEnneagram, avo masisitimu akatorwa kubva kumafilosofi asina kuyedzwa pachinzvimbo chekucherechedzwa kwevanhu, Makuru mashanu uye dzidziso dzakashandiswa kuzvitsanangura dzakagadzirwa zvichibva pakuchenjerera, kuongorora kwesainzi. Carl Jung, chiremba wezvepfungwa uyo dzidziso yake yakafuridzira iyo MBTI, aive psychoanalyst uyo akashandura fungidziro dzake nezvehunhu hwevanhu kuita taxonomy; mune mamwe mazwi, akagadzira hurongwa hwekuronga hunhu hunoenderana nepfungwa dzake pasina kuyedza kana zvichinyatso tsanangura hunhu hwevanhu. Vatsvagurudzo vakawana Huru Shanu vakatora nzira yakapesana uye vakarega dhata kutyaira nenzira yavanonzwisisa hunhu hwehurongwa.

Zvimwe zvezvidzidzo zvekutanga zvakadaro zvakaongorora chirevo chekufungidzira: kana paine hunhu pane izvo vanhu vanosiyana, uye kana kunzwisisa misiyano yakakosha pakunzwisisa nekudyidzana nevanhu, chero tsika ichave yakagadzira izwi mumutauro waro kutsanangura chimwe nechimwe chehunhu ihwohwo. . Kune mazwi anosvika mazana mana nemazana mashanu muduramazwi reChirungu anotsanangura hunhu - anowirirana maitiro epfungwa, manzwiro, uye maitiro. Kubudikidza nekuongorora ratings dzevanhu pachezvadzo nevamwe pahunhu uhwu vachishandisa manhamba ehunyanzvi anonzi factor ongororo, ayo anosanganisa hunhu pamwe chete zvichienderana nekuti vane hukama hwakadii, vatsvagiridzi vakawana masumbu mashanu makuru ehukama hwakanangana hunotsanangura ruzhinji rweyedu misiyano. Vakabva vatanga kugadzira uye kuyedza dzidziso kuti vatsanangure maitiro atinowana aya hunhu.

2. Kuenderera mberi kuri nani pane zvikamu.

Iyo MBTI uye Enneagram inokupa hunhu mhando - chikamu chakajeka chakasiyana zvakasiyana kubva kune mamwe mapoka. Iwo Makuru mashanu hunhu hunhu , kana humwe hunhu hunoyerwa pane kuenderera kubva pasi kusvika kumusoro.

Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinofarira hunhu kune mhando. Chimwe chikonzero ndechekuti mhando muunganidzwa weakawanda maitiro. Iyo ISFJ mhando tsananguro inosanganisira hunhu hwakaita sekunyarara, mutoro, uye kufunga. Izvi zvinomiririra mativi matatu akasiyana eVakuru Vashanu - kuwedzera, kushinga, uye kubvumirana - asi zvese zvakasunganidzwa pamwechete muchikamu ichi. Zviyero Zvikuru zvishanu zvinozviongorora zvakasiyana uye nekuwedzera nuance. Zvakare, nekuti mhando dzinowanzo sanganisira hunhu hwakawanda, pane kuwanda mukati mehunhu mhando, uye munhu anogona kuzviona vari mumhando dzakawanda.

Pamusoro pezvo, mhando dzinosvika pakuronga vanhu sevanonyanyisa, kana zvirizvo, hunhu hwevanhu hunomiririrwa zvirinani nekuenderera, vazhinji vedu vari pakati kupfuura kumagumo. Iyi nheyo inoratidzirwa munzira iyo Vakuru Vashanu vanoyerwa, nemibvunzo ichishandisa chiyero chinotsvedza pane chimiro chakamanikidzwa-chesarudzo.

3. Vanogona kuratidza kuti wachinja sei.

Nemhando yehunhu, zvakaoma kana zvisingaite kuyera hunhu hwako pazviitiko zvakasiyana uye uone kuti hunhu hwako hwachinja zvakadii. Ukatarisa kumashure pauri makore mashanu, gumi, kana makumi maviri apfuura, unozogona kuona dzimwe nzira dzawakasiyana nadzo. Dzimwe nguva shanduko idzo dzakavanzika, uye dzimwe nguva dzakakura. Tsvagiridzo inotsigira iyi "anecdata"; kuwedzera kune yakasarudzika nzira dzaunoshandura uri wega, vanhu vanowanzo shanduka nenzira dzakafanana sezvavanokura. Iko kugona kwehunhu mhando yekuzvidavirira kune iwo ane chinangwa shanduko kunopokana.

Kekutanga nguva yandakatora iyo MBTI, yaive yegore ra2004, uye ini ndakarova seIntJ. Ini ndinogona kukuudza nzira chaidzo dzandakachinja mumakore gumi nemashanu kubva ipapo-mamwe makuru, mamwe madiki. Nekudaro, kana ini ndikatora bvunzo zvakare nhasi, ndinogona kana ndingaone ishanduko iratidziro mumhedzisiro yangu. Muchiitiko chekutanga, takataura nezvekuti iyo MBTI inokupa sei mhando; semuenzaniso, kana iwe ukahwina chero muhafu yepamusoro yeiyo yekuwedzeredza spectrum, iwe unowana E, uye muhafu yepasi, ini I. Zvichienderana nezvandaiva pakutanga, ndaigona kuyambuka chikumbaridzo ndopinda E ndima, kana ini ndaigona kwete. Zvinotopokana kuti shanduko yandakaona haina kutorwa zvachose nerudzi rwangu. Asi kana ikanyoresa shanduko, ini ndinongoerekana ndaita senge rudzi rwevanhu.

Hunhu hunhu zviyero zvinotora shanduko zvirinani kupfuura mhando. Nekuyera hunhu hwemunhu pane kuenderera, iwe unogona kuona kana iwe wachinja pane mamwe maitiro uye chaizvo chaizvo. Kana ndikahwina 50/100 pakuvhurika kuti ndiwane ruzivo senge nyowani yekoreji uye makumi manomwe nemaviri nhasi, ndiri kuona kuti ini ndawedzera zvakanyanya pachena. Humwe hunhu hwangu hunhu hunogona kunge hwakashanduka panguva iyoyo, zvakare, munzira diki kana hombe, kana pamwe kwete zvachose.

Nekutarisa hunhu hunhu hwangu, ini ndinogona kuona kuti, sevanhu vazhinji, ndakawedzera pakushingairira hana, kubvumirana, uye kugadzikana kwepfungwa kubva pamakore makumi maviri kusvika pamakumi matatu nematanhatu, kana kuti ndiri akafanana neni makore mashanu apfuura, asi nekuda kwenzvimbo yangu yekuvhurika. Kuedzwa-kudzokorodza kutendeseka kunowanzo kuve kwakasimba pamusoro penguva pfupi uye kunoderera nenguva, iyo inomiririra hunhu chaihwo shanduko pane kuyerwa kwakashata.

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