Tsvaga Chii Chinoita Kuti Ubate

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• Hunhu hwakakosha Kuverengwa
• Ichokwadi Nezve Hunhu Hunhu

Kana iwe wakambobvunzwa mubvunzo "Chii chinoita kuti ubike?" ungave wakakuwana kwakaoma kupindura kupfuura zvawakafunga. Mushure mezvose, kana iwe usingazive iwe pachako, ndiani anoziva? Chikonzero icho mubvunzo uyu wakanetsa kupindura ndechekuti isu hatiwanzo kufunga pamusoro pedu pfungwa, manzwiro, uye maitiro. Nekudzidza nezve hukuru hwepfungwa dzepfungwa, iwe unozowana wega-kuziva kuti nei uchiita zvaunoita uye sei, kana uchida, ungachinja.

Iwe unogona kufunga kuti psychology yakasarudza kare kare maitiro ekutsanangura hunhu. Mushure mezvose, iyi ndeimwe yemafungiro ekutanga ayo vanodzidza nezvepfungwa vanodzidza. Zvinoitika kuti kune dzinenge tsanangudzo dzakawandisa dzehunhu sezvo paine nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa. Kubva kuFreudian kuenda kuSkinnerians, uye zvese zviri pakati, nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinopa tsananguro dzinoratidza huzivi hwavo hwezvakakosha nezvehunhu hwevanhu.

Kana iwe usina kupihwa kumafungiro efilosofi uye uchingoda kuziva nzira yekuzvinzwisisa iwe pachako, pane tariro. Vazhinji vezvepfungwa vanobvumirana pane dudziro inoshanda yehunhu kuvatungamira mune ravo rehunyanzvi basa, kutsvagisa, uye kunyange hupenyu hwega, hunhu ihwo hunhu hwemunhu hunhu hwekunzwa kana hunhu. Nyanzvi dzakasiyana dzepfungwa dzinosimbisa manzwiro, maitiro, uye zvikonzero zvinoita kuti vanhu vanzwe uye vazvibate neimwe nzira. Nekudaro, vese vepfungwa vanoona hunhu sehunhu hwemunhu, zvichireva kuti ndiyo hwaro hwekusiyana kubva pamunhu nemunhu.

Kufambira mberi nerondedzero yakakosha iyi, ngatienderere mberi kuti uone zvaunogona kudzidza kubva kune vanofunga zvikuru muhunhu hwepfungwa.

Iyo psychodynamics yehunhu

Chero chero gwara rakanaka kuhunhu rinofanira kutanga naFreud, uyo anorumbidzwa nekuwana iyo isingazive pfungwa. Sekureva kwaFreud, hunhu hwako hunoratidzira hukama hwakaomarara pakati pemasimba ekuziva uye asingazive iwe paunotarisana nematambudziko ehupenyu hwako. Isu tese tinotongwa nezvakakosha zvinodiwa zvatisingazive, Freud akatenda. Isu tinopedza hupenyu hwedu kuyedza kuzadzikisa izvo zvidikanwi nepo, panguva imwecheteyo, isu tichienderera nehukama hwedu uye nekuita kwedu kwekuita basa ("rudo nebasa," sekutaura kwaFreud).

Kunyangwe varapi vepfungwa vemazuva ano vasingatenge hazvo dzidziso yakazara yaFreud, vanobvuma (zvakanyanya kana zvishoma) kuti chimwe chinhu senge nzira dzekudzivirira dzinotungamira maitiro edu. Kuti tizvidzivirire kubva kunetseka, tinovaka madziro anodzivirira ayo anochengetedza pfungwa dzedu kubva pakubvuma zvatinofunga nezvatinonzwa.

Fungidziro yaFreud yakagadzirawo nzira yekuti vanachiremba vepfungwa vazotevera vawane kunzwisiswa kwehunhu "mhando" senge wekutanga, narcissist, uye neurotic. Zvinotoshamisa kuti, kunyangwe isu tichifunga nezve psychodynamic dzidziso sekusimbisa maitiro ekuzvarwa nawo (senge bonde kutyaira), maFreudian neo-Freudians vakapa huremu hwekurera kupfuura hunhu sekukurudzira budiriro. Semuenzaniso, narcissists vanoita mukunyanyisa kuzvida nekuda kwekunyanyisa kana kushoma kutarisisa kubva kuvabereki vavo.

Vanoverengeka veavaishanda navo vepedyo vakapedzisira vaumba mhando yeFreudian Brat Pack ndokutiza kubva pakukoshesa pabonde uye nehumwe hunhu hwepamoyo. Mumwe weakanyanya kukosha aive Carl Jung, uyo akatora dzimwe pfungwa dzaFreud ndokudzishandisa kugadzira yavo yemhando yemhando dzehunhu. NdiJung chaiye akatipa mazwi ekuti "introvert" uye "extravert" sekuzwisisa kwatinoita nhasi. Jung akasimbisawo kudzika kwepfungwa kwakazara kune vanhu vese. Akatenda kuti isu tese tine "archetypes" inova tsika yekupindura kune mamwe madingindira epasirese. Imwe yenyaya dzakadai ndeye "gamba" archetype iyo, sekureva kwaJung, inogoneswa patinopindura kune vakadai vakaita saBatman, Superman, kana kunyangwe Jesu Kristu. Tinodhonzwa kune aya mavara nekuti iyi mifananidzo yakanyorwa mune edu asingazive pfungwa.

Icho chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti psychodynamic dzidziso inosimbisa zvikamu zvepfungwa dzako zvinokutapura iwe zuva nezuva, zvichienderera mukati mako kunze kwekuziva kwako kuziva.

Hunhu seti yemaitiro

Dzidziso dzekuzvibata dzinoti isu hatina "hunhu." Zvinoenderana nedzidziso yehunhu hwehunhu sekuratidzwa kwayakaitwa nemumwe wayo akatanga, BF Skinner, isu tinopindura kuzviitiko muhupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva pahwaro hwetsika dzakawanikwa.Hunhu hwedu, zvinoenderana nehunhu hwehunhu, hausi kupfuura kungwara kwenzira dzekupindura dzatakadzidza kuburikidza nekusimbisa uye kugadzirisa.

Hunhu hwako hwakasarudzika, maererano nehunhu, hunoratidza zviitiko zvakawanda zvawakave nazvo kubva pakuzvarwa kusvika parizvino. Nhau dzakanaka ndedzekuti kana iwe usingade hunhu hwako, vanoita hunhu vanotenda kuti iwe unogona kuzvishandura nekugadzirisa zvekare izvo zvakatipoteredza izvo zvinokukanganisa iwe. Maitiro ekuzvibata ndiwo ane tariro, munzira dzakawanda, pamusoro pekugona kwekuchinja kwehunhu.

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