Pakati Pano Nekupedzisira Kumira Kwangu: Memoirs uye Assisted Mashiripiti

Kwakave kudonha inguva inguva yeWomen's Kurume 2016 iyo yakandiisa parutivi ini neangu pink pussy ngowani. Ndakaziva ipapo kuti ini ndanga ndangotora chikamu pakuratidzira kwekupedzisira kuratidzira. Kunyangwe mutendi wenguva imwechete ari "kugara-pamba" kufamba - kutsvagisisa nezvekushushikana, kusurukirwa, uye zvakakosha kubva kumisangano yeGerontological Society of America, iyo yandave ndichitevedzera kwemakore akati zvino, yakandimanikidza kufunga zvakare. Musangano wegore wegumi nemasere wakaitirwa muBoston mwedzi uno. Nekutsvagurudza kubva kunzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana, vakataura nezvekutsvagisa kwesainzi uye nzira dzekukurudzira kukwegura kune hutano. Gerontological Sosaiti yeAmerica.

Yakauya panguva iyo ini ndainzwa kupokana uye kutambira mazano avo nesimba. Zvisinei nekudana kwangu "kukwegura munzvimbo tsime rehujaya" mune chinyorwa chekutanga, mushure mekudonha kweVakadzi munaKurume, sarudzo dzangu dzaive dzakaganhurwa: Kutamira nevana kana kuenda kune hupenyu hwekubatsira - hwandakafunga kuti ndiri mudiki kwazvo. Kunyange zvakadaro, mushure mekuverenga zvakare Kuva Wemweya naAtul Gawande, MD, ndakatanga kuverenga maropafadzo angu uye ndikaita sarudzo.

Dr. Gawande, a New Yorker munyori wevashandi, uye chiremba wenguva refu kuBrigham neWomen's Hospital muBoston, anonongedzera kuti tinogona kunakidzwa nenguva dzekugadzira dzakazadzwa nerevo nehutano kunyange mumakore edu anotevera.

Sekutaura kwakaita vazhinji vaongorori, basa raGawande rinoratidzika kunge riri kubvumidza vanhu kurarama hupenyu hune chinangwa uye kuumba nyaya yehupenyu hwavo. Nepo rubatsiro rwekubatsirwa dzimwe nguva rwunofungidzirwa seimba yekurega basa, zvirokwazvo, kune vanhu vane makore makumi matanhatu, makumi manomwe, uye vakuru, inogona kuve nzvimbo yekutanga chiitiko chitsva. Kana psychoanalyst Carl Gustav Jung, akazvarwa muna 1875, akapetwa akazara pamudyandigere, anogona kunge asina kunyora rimwe remabasa ake ekare, Ndangariro, Kurota, Kufungisisa muna 1962.

Bhuku rinogona kunge risiri mune redu ramangwana, asi hupenyu hwekubatsira hunogona kuve pekutanga pehupenyu hutsva. Vaimbove vashandi pamwe neni vangangoita negodo kuenzanisa sarudzo yangu yekurarama neMacDowell Colony muPeterborough, New Hampshire. Ikoko vanyori uye maartist vanochengetwa nepo kazhinji vachipedza basa riri kuenderera mberi.

Mhuri Memoir

Kudonha sezvandakaita zvakandisiya, asi zvakare ndakamisa chirongwa chekutora ese akaburitswa makoramu nezve sekuru nasekuru vangu ndokuaisa mubhuku revazukuru vangu. Uye zvirokwazvo, neblack bepa pikicha chinyorwa, chakagadzirwa neimwe yehanzvadzi dzangu, uye nguva yekunyora isina kukanganiswa, Kutsvoda kweItaly : Huchenjeri hwaMbuya vangu, ikozvino neBordighera Press muNew York City.

Kune vanhu vanofarira memoir, kune kutsva uye kunakidza kutsvagisa kubva kuYunivhesiti Medical Center Hamburg-Eppendorf. Sezvakataurwa mukati Maitiro Ekutsvagisa uye Therapy uye Kuziva uye Kuzvibata Maitiro, kunyangwe ndangariro dzisingafadzi dzinogona kushandurwa nekugadzirisa nekuzvinyorazve: Maitiro Ekukoshesa Ndangariro Dzinofadza uye Gadziridza Iwo Akasuruvara (zvine mareferenzi.)

Basa

Tisati tamira kwekupedzisira, vazhinji vedu tine zviuru zvezvinangwa, zvishuwo uye zviroto, kana runyorwa rwebhaketi. Vanhu vazhinji havadi kufunga nezve yekupedzisira kumira. Nekudaro, chikoro chekupedza kudzidza chakatibatsira kuti tizosangana nekufa kwedu. Isu takapihwa basa rekunyora yedu yega obituary. Yaive nzira yekutarisa zvinangwa zvedu uye kuona kuti taishuvira sei kurangarirwa. Nyora imwe nhasi uye wozozvibvunza iwe kuti: "Izvi ndizvo zvandinoda kuti nyaya yangu yeupenyu iti?" Uye kana zvisiri izvo, bvunza kuti, "Chii chiri kushaikwa? Chii chandaitarisira kuzadzikisa?"

Mumwe akapedza chikoro waaishanda naye akati aida kuva chiremba. Mumwe munhu akamutsiura achiti, "Unenge wava nemakumi mashanu nenguva yaunove mugari." Akafunga kweminiti ndokupindura, "Ini ndichave makumi mashanu zvakadaro." Uye akanyoresa kuchikoro chekurapa.

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