Zvese NezveNarcissism

Zvemukati

• Narcissism Yakakosha Kuverenga
• Rationalizing Manipulation: Izvo Zvinhu Zvatinoitira weNarcissist

Chii chinokonzera narcissism? Nei ma narcissist achifadza uye achidikanwa (pakutanga)? Ko vanhu vane narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana vane kuzvidzora kwakakwirira? Narcissism inoenderana nepfungwa here? Narcissism inogona kurapwa-kana kurapwa zvinobudirira nemushonga kana psychotherapy? Zvinogona here kuti narcissism dzimwe nguva ive chinhu chakanaka kana ichigara ichikuvadza? Maitiro ekuita nevanonyengedza? Mibvunzo yakawanda nezve narcissism yakaoma kupindura, zvirinani muchikamu nekuti narcissism haina kunyatso tsanangurwa. Kuti uzive kana narcissism inogona kukurirwa, semuenzaniso, isu tinofanirwa kunyatso ziva zvinoreva narcissism.

Ini nguva pfupi yadarika ndakave nerombo rakanaka rekubvunzurudza mumwe munhu anoziva nezve akasiyana conceptualizations e narcissism, kusanganisira zvese zvekiriniki uye zvemagariro / hunhu maonero nezvazvo. Josh Miller, Ph.D. , purofesa wezvepfungwa uye Director weKliniki Kurovedza paUniversity yeGeorgia muongorori ane ruzivo uyo akaburitsa zvakadarika mazana maviri mapepa akaongororwa nevezera uye zvitsauko zvemabhuku- huwandu hwakakosha hwacho hunokanganisa narcissism uye narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana. ^2-5 Tsvagurudzo yake inotarisa pane zvakajairwa uye zvehunhu hunhu, kusagadzikana kwehunhu (nekusimbisa narcissism uye psychopathy), nekunze maitiro.

Miller zvakare Mupepeti-mu-Chief we Zvinyorwa zveKutsvagisa Muhunhu , uye iri pane yekunyora bhodhi yemamwe mapepa akaongororwa nevezera rako, kusanganisira Zvinyorwa zveAbnormal Psychology , Kuongorora , Zvinyorwa zveMunhu , Zvinyorwa zveMunhu Kushushikana , uye Hunhu Kuvhiringidzika: Dzidziso, Tsvagiridzo, uye Kurapa .

Emamzadeh: Kubva kuma1900, vanachiremba vazhinji nevanoongorora - Sigmund Freud, Harry Guntrip, Heinz Kohut, Otto Kernberg, Glen Gabbard, naElsa Ronningstam pakati pavo - vakanyora nezve narcissism. Kunyangwe mazuva ano, sekucherechedza kwawakaita mupepa rako rekuongorora ra2017, "Ongororo yezve narcissism mune ese mafomu-narcissistic hunhu kusagadzikana (NPD), grandiose narcissism, uye narcissism iri panjodzi - inozivikanwa kupfuura nakare kose." ² Nei iwe uchifunga kuti vazhinji vaongorori, tisingatauri vanhuwo zvavo, vanofarira narcissism?

Miller: Ndingangopokana it is a confluence of factors-vatsvagiri vanofarira kupatsanura narcissism nenzira dzakaomarara (semuenzaniso, kutsanangudza pakati pehurukuro dzakakura uye dzinotambura), kuiswa kwe narcissism mune yakawanda-inogadzira mabhuku anonzi iyo Dark Triad (kudzidza narcissism, psychopathy , uye Machiavellianism) iyo yakawana kukwezva kwakanyanya mune ese emabhuku enhoroondo uye pakati pevazhinji-veruzhinji, uye nhaurirano dze narcissism dzinoonekwa mune vakakurumbira veruzhinji manhamba. Chekupedzisira, ndinofunga kuti narcissism chivakwa chakajairika mune zvekuti vanhu vese vanogona nyore kuumba mienzaniso yevanhu muhupenyu hwavo vanoratidza mamwe ehunhu - vangave mitezo yemhuri, shamwari, kana vashandi pamwe - uye nekudaro zvinonzwika zvakanyanya kune vanhu vazhinji vanosanganisira veruzhinji, vatsvagiri, uye varapi.

Emamzadeh: Ndakaona kuti vanachiremba, vaongorori, uye vanyori (kusanganisira zvimwe zvekunyorera Psychology Nhasi ) usashandise izwi rekuti "narcissist" nguva dzose. Ndakaverenga maonero nezve narcissism zvakasiyana neinotevera (A vs B).

A: Narcissists uye psychopaths vanogovana zvakawanda zvakafanana. Hapana anotambura zvechokwadi asi vese vanoita vanhu vakavakomberedza kutambura. Isu tinofanirwa kudzidza kuziva vanonyengedza kuitira kuti tizvidzivirire kubva kune vanhu vane ngozi uye vane hutsinye.

B: VaNarcissist vane egos isina kusimba; chivimbo chavo chakanyanyisa hachisi chinhu kunze kwemask. Isu tinofanirwa kuve nekunzwira tsitsi kukuru kune ve narcissist nekuti ivo vakakuvadzwa (kunyangwe kana vakasazobvuma kwazviri). VaNarcissist vanotambura sesu tese.

Ndeupi wetsananguro idzi uri padyo nechokwadi?

Miller: Pfungwa dzangu dzinowanzoenderana nesarudzo A mune iyo narcissism uye psychopathy iri "padyo nemuvakidzani" inovaka inopfuura zvakanyanya. Sezvineiwo, pamwe nekuda kwekukambodzidziswa uye kuti zvakakanganisa sei dzidziso dzekutanga (narcissism: dzidziso nema psychodynamic theorists; psychopathy: forensic marongero), pane zvishoma zve "kusagadzikana" kana "mask" pfungwa ye psychopathy inowanikwa zvinogara zvichingoita narcissism matinopa zvishuwo zvisina kunaka (semuenzaniso, kunyara; kushushikana; kunzwa kwekushomeka) izvo zvinofambisa ukuru-pfungwa dzisati dzawana rutsigiro rukuru kunyangwe paine mukurumbira wakareba mukiriniki uye nekuisa maonero ehunarcissism. Ini ndinofunga munhu anogona kunzwira tsitsi narcissistic uye psychopathic vanhu (kunyangwe zvingave zvakaoma) kana munhu akaziva kukuvadza kwavanozviitira ivo pamwe nevamwe uye mukana wekuti pane imwe nhanho ine musoro yedyscontrol iri kutamba.

Emamzadeh: Izwi rimwe rinoshandiswa kutsanangura narcissism, kunyanya mune zvemagariro / hunhu mabhuku, iri hukuru . Izwi rekuti grandiosity rinotsanangurwa zvakasiyana sekuzvikoshesa, kuzvisimudzira, uye nemanzwiro ehukuru. Asi mutsauko uripakati pekukura uye kuzviremekedza kwepamusoro unoita kunge inyaya yemadhigirii, nekukura kuchiratidza "kuwedzeredza" kana "kunyanya" kuzvikoshesa. Kana ichi chiri chokwadi, saka tingaziva sei — kana ndiani anosarudza — iyo zvakakodzera mwero wekuzvikoshesa?

Miller: Ndiwo mubvunzo wakanaka, wandinoenda kunzvenga pakutanga. Ndingataure kuti hukuru hwesimba uye kuzvidzora kwakasiyana pakuvaka kunyangwe zvichiratidzika kunge zvinopindirana. Isu nguva pfupi yadarika takaita enzaniso yakaenzanisirwa yezvinhu zviviri zvakagadzirwa pamasampuli gumi nerimwe (uye vangangoita zviuru zvishanu vevatori vechikamu) uye takawana zvakafanana zvakafanana uye misiyano yakawanda yakakosha. ⁶ Iwo maviri anovaka anongoenderana zvine zvine mwero (r-30 .30), saka ivo vari kure kwazvo kuti vasachinjane. Panyaya yekufananidzwa, vanhu vakakwirira mukuzviremekedza uye / kana hukuru narcissism vanogovana hunhu, hunobuda, hune chivimbo chevanhu. Panyaya yemisiyano, zvakadaro, kuzviremekedza chivakwa chose chinoenderana nehukama (hukama nevamwe) uye hukama hwehukama (semuenzaniso, mukana mushoma wekuona zvemukati kana zvekunze mafomu ezviratidzo) nepo narcissism iine maradaptive ehukama anoenderana . Tinotenda izvi zvinokonzereswa neiro zero-sum yekudyidzana nzira iyo vanhu vanofunga nezvekutenda vanotenda kuti panogona kuve neumwe "anokunda" mune chero kupihwa kudyidzana (semuenzaniso, akangwara, chinzvimbo chakanyanya; simba rakanyanya) nepo vanhu vane kuzvikwidziridza - kuremekedza asi kwete narcissism vanokwanisa kuzvifunga ivo nevamwe mune zvakanaka mazwi (onawo Brummelman, Thomaes, & Sedikides, 2016). ⁷

Narcissism Yakakosha Kuverenga

Rationalizing Manipulation: Izvo Zvinhu Zvatinoitira weNarcissist