5 Nyaya Dzakakosha muDambudziko Revanhu Vakuru Vehukama Hukama

Nguva yandakapedza ndichishanda nevanhu vakuru vane hukama hwakaoma nehama dzavo zvakandipa chivimbo chekuti varapi vanofanirwa kuziva nezvezvinhu zvishanu zvakakosha.

1. Hukama hwehukama hukama hwehupenyu-hurefu.

Hukama hwemukoma nemunin'ina, hwapihwa hwakajairwa hupenyu hwehupenyu, hunogara kwenguva yakareba kupfuura chero humwe hukama huchave nemunhu-hwakareba kupfuura hukama nevabereki, vadikani, vana, uye, sezvingabvira, shamwari. Nekudaro, kujekesa kana kugadzirisa hukama hwehama kwakakosha zvakanyanya kune hupenyu hwemunhu nekuti kubatana pakati pehama kunowanzo kudikanwa pakutarisira vabereki vakwegura, pamwe nekugona kuchengeta mumwe nemumwe.

2. Varapi havawanzo kudzidziswa kufunga nezvehukama hwehama dzevakuru, uye havabvunze nezvavo pakurapwa.

Sekunyora kwatakaita naMichael Woolley mumagazini ichangoburwa yemagazini Yemagariro Basa , vanhu vakuru vari kunetsekana nenyaya yekushandisa zvinhu vanogona kukanganisa, uye kukanganiswa nehukama hwakaoma nehama dzavo. Kunze kwekunge varapi vafunga nezvehukama uhu, mikana yekubatsira mhuri system (inosanganisira hama) icharasika. Vanun'una vanofanirwa kuverengerwa pavanodhirowa eco-mepu yemunhu mukuru kana genogram.

3.Uhwu kazhinji hukama husina kugadzikana.

Nepo zvikamu zviviri muzvitatu zvevanhu mazana maviri nemakumi maviri nevaviri vakabvunzurudzwa bhuku redu, Hukuru Hukama Hukama , tsanangura vamwe kana vese vehama mazana manomwe vane rudo, vamwe vanotsanangurwa zvakanyanya kusanzwisisika. Muchokwadi, iwo mabhuku anotaura nezve kusanzwisisika kunowanikwa muhukama hwakawanda hwehukama hwehama. .

4. Hukama hwehukama hwakajeka uye husinganzwisisike.

Vanun'una vanowanzoona sekuti havanzwisise hunhu hwemumwe mukoma kana munun'una. Zvakare, ivo havanzwe kunzwisiswa nehama. "Anondibata senge ndakanga ndichiri nemakore gumi nematanhatu uye asinganzwisise munhu wandava," ndizvo zvinowanzoitika. Kunzwa kuvhiringidzika nemufambiro wemumwe mukoma kana kunzwa kusanzwisiswa kunogona kutungamira kune kumwe kupokana.

5. Dzidziso yekurapa kwemhuri dzinogona kubatsira kuzivisa maitiro ekugadzirisa nyaya dzehama.

Basa raMurray Bowen rinotikurudzira kutarisa pakati-chizvarwa pahukama hwehama. Muchokwadi, takaona kuti kana baba vachionekwa sevari padyo nevanun'una, vana vavo vanowanzove pedyo nepedyo. ' Makore mashoma gare gare, vaviri veamai vamai vacho vakawira kunze kwekusangana. Nekunyepedzera, vaive vadzidza kuti uku kwaive hunhu hunogamuchirwa kubva kuna amai vavo.

Kurongeka kwemhuri kurapwa (SFT) inokurudzira varapi kuti vateerere miganhu yehama. Vabereki vakaunganidzwa muhukama hwevana vakuru? Vabereki vari kupindira muchizvarwa-chizvarwa uye vasingabvumidze vanin'ina kuti vashande kuburikidza nenyaya dzavo? Vari kurwisana nevakoma nevanin'ina vari kukweva vabereki vachembera? Kana zvirizvo, vabereki vanogona kuvharirwa kubva parudzi urwu rwekupinda uye vanun'una vanogona kukurudzirwa kuti vashande pamwe nemumwe. Kana mubereki achirwara kana kufa, izvi zvinonyanya kukosha.

Nekuunza vanin'ina mukamuri yekurapa, varapi vanogona kubatsira vatengi kufamba zvimwe zvezvinhu zvakaomarara zvinogona kuvanetsa muhupenyu hwese.